And it’s so gross and creepy and pathetic that a guy would feel the need to make sure a girl isn’t giving him a fake number. Like, if she was into you, she’d give you the correct number. If she gives you a fake number, she isn’t into you. Texting her right then and there just makes you look like you know you’re not a…

Never Forget:

Never Forget.

Never Forget:

The scary truth:

The older I get (I’m 46) the less I want to watch stuff like this. I know a lot of it has to do with me being overloaded with all the crap going on in the world and the lunatic in office but my tolerance for watching horrific things has gone to nil.

#neverforget #doingthelordswork #whitejesus #whitesanta

#neverforget #doingthelordswork

You know it’s possible to say things and not remember saying them because you grew up your entire life being able to say those things without repercussions or thinking about how your words/actions impact others. This is commonly known as privilege.

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That statement actually made me realize that generally the only time I have been told I should smile is after a guy has made an inappropriate comment and I’m glaring at him. WTF, dudes? Shouldn’t you be better than this?

I’d like to see a movement encouraging men to publicly own past shitty and abusive behavior towards women rather than encouraging them to show their ally bona fides. It’s much harder to own past shitty behavior than it is to ingratiate yourself with all the cute feminists in your network by tweeting generic support.

I get this bullshit still in the pharmacy I work in. It isn’t as nauseating as when I was just a clerk and the male pharmacists would laugh and tell the patients I “needed to be broken in” when the patients would sexually harass me or make generally degrading comments. Now that I am a technician and work with the…

stoptellingwomentosmile is a really great Instagram account highlighting an international art project about this, if anyone is interested!

I have had to call out friends for being assholes to women not giving them the reaction they wanted to comments. Two weeks ago, while out to dinner with a colleague, he tried to stiff the waitress on tips because she didn’t react to his moronic and offensive flirting. She shut him down marvelously, and it ‘ruined his…

Totally agree with this. The whole “You should smile more” is fucking bullshit. I’ve had it said to me as a man and it annoys me but I’m also large so when I respond “I don’t fucking want to” people just STFU. But for women if they did that there is a good chance these dipshit men would take offense and berate them at…

I love this. I’ve noticed that I anticipate a response for my lame comments sometimes like a needy weirdo. I just sent your comment to my pard and told her sorry for being such a dummy. Thanks

Yep, I once had a total stranger at a bus stop demand I high five him. When I didn’t, smiling awkwardly and stuttering, he got pissed at me. Like, why do you care why strange women give you high fives you freak?

So true. A personal story, my fiance had at one point said that I have no sense of humor. All of our friends, vehemently disagree and have my back.

You either are dumb for not getting it or a drag with no sense of humor for not finding it charming.