LavenderGirl
lavendergirl
Nov 20 2015
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So what if it is? And the answer is that sometimes it does, and sometimes it doesn’t, and who the fuck cares because being poly doesn’t mean I checked my fucking feelings at the door, and if it ever were to occur between this guy and me, or really me and anyone, it’d be a long way down the road because I, personally Read more

Nov 20 2015
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None of that says sex. It says dating, but not sex. Please reevaluate your issues surrouding polyamory, because quite clearly you have some, and let me be.

Nov 20 2015
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Now, that is an interesting assumption. What particularly gave you that idea? “See socially” is not synonmous with “sleep with,” nor is “poly” with “sexual relationship.”

Nov 20 2015
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Sure, there’s that possibility. The “playing” was reference to that set of memes “this could be us but you playin’”.
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Nov 20 2015
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I’m a TA, and my instructor canceled this morning because she’s got the flu. Allow me to demonstrate the confetti party I threw for myself when I realized I didn’t have to get up at 6:15 am today:

Nov 20 2015
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I’m not worried, because I wouldn’t say anything to him that I wouldn’t be comfortable with him repeating to his girlfriend. Read more

Nov 20 2015
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Okay, so your initial comment was to tell me that it’s probably going to be a no go? But your further comments are to say that you personally think it’s fine if I ask anyway? How kind of you to weigh in. I’ll be sure to take that under advisement.
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Nov 20 2015
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But why assume, when one can use one’s words and find out for sure?

Nov 20 2015
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My additional point is that I like his personality and intellect, and there’s a physical attraction on my side that could grow if given a bit of encouragement from him, and why not have the conversation? Talking to people isn’t a waste of time, it’s the basis of getting to know someone and seeing if you can be even Read more

Nov 20 2015
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Of course, but people don’t go around wearing “hi, I’m poly/not poly” badges on the shirts, so that’s why I wanted to talk to him in a low pressure, group based setting, as was planned for tonight. Read more

Nov 20 2015
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Making me laugh is just how utterly inconsequentially disastrous this week has been. Too many things to go into detail, but it culminated with a guy I’m into cancelling plans. We haven’t gotten to the ‘I like you, let’s hang out more’ portion of things, and he has a girlfriend and I’m not looking to poach, but I am Read more

Nov 18 2015
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Oooh! Oooh! I know this one!! Was it the kids who didn’t need the extra points because they’re actually already really good students?! I bet it was...

Nov 17 2015
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He is a tiny bit insecure about us, considering me quite a ‘catch’ and failing to get, on occasion, how attractive he is to me, so yeah, just a bit of 1. *grin* It’s adorable. In him.

Nov 17 2015
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I will say that if/when I become financially stable, we’re going to revisit this issue.

Nov 17 2015
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I came up against this hard with my guy, because he would just...always pay. Like, always-always, quasi-arguing with me about a 50 cent parking meter. For him, though not for most men, it comes from the fact that I’m broke and he’s stable, and he wants to do nice things for me including making sure I am comfortable Read more

Nov 17 2015
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Oh, no, but something about it is making her look washed out and tired.

Nov 17 2015
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About Willow’s dress: a) Bugs. b) Not a print, but very carefully applied sequins and beads. c) Not enough breast to pull it off—it looks like it needs to be hiked up...like, a lot.