I don't know. I told my mom that I knew marriage was supposed to be hard, and she stopped me and told me that if my marriage was hard, I was doing it wrong. I know people have different relationships with their spouses (so those in hard but happy marriages, don't come at me) so I don't think that could be a universal…

I'm kind of into it, but that doesn't matter because as long as you're into it, you can rock it. you do you, girl

Oh Claire. Gurl. Really?

Good LORD, that woman's figure. *stuffs eyeballs back in head and focuses on IT things again for the rest of the day*

Artists don't necessarily get the context and implications of what they do. A lot of the time, they can't. Sometimes it's because they're so immersed in what they're doing that they can't take the step back to look at how everything fits, sometimes it's because they have no education or training in how to look at…

There are lots of people who leave their kids to pursue education. I am not going to shame them for doing it. She has a job and it seems to be turning into a good business for her.

I'm glad we don't hear about her kid. Her kid deserves privacy.

Why is her child any of the public's business? The child was on a TV show, now she's not. She's not public property and we are not entitled to know a thing about her if her mother chooses not to share it. Her career when in a different place and that doesn't mean she's not at home being a mother just because it's not…

It's cool. I don't normally comment over at these parts but that line just really bothered me.

Do people say those things about single dads who, you know, have jobs?

Slut shame, mommy shame, and body shame? For those of us who keep score that is a ham bone or 300 points awarded to you Lindy. Congrats and if we were at a bowling alley you would be awarded with the Pretzel of your choice.

God damn it, CatAss. I think I'm totally over sex now. I'm done with sex.

Maybe she got the vagina mold for her personal use but OOPS thousands were made and UH OH they're being sold on the internet. WHOOPSIE DAISIES.

So I know pointing this out will never get me out of grey status but the line:

How was she to know that it was an exotic animal dealer rather than a person with a regional animal that is unfamiliar to her? I don't think they wear name tags.

I'm assuming that everyone jumping on Rihanna can correctly identify all of the roughly 45,000 endangered species in the world and knows the compete ins and outs of the illegal exotic pet trade.

I'm always team Elba.

I don't know if that's relevant given that I have two graduate degrees and I've never heard of a Slow Loris, but I agree that unless the handler told her (and why would s/he) she probably had no idea.

Is there any reason to think she knew it was an endangered species? I definitely didn't. If someone handed me a cute and non lethal animal I would probably cuddle it before asking its relative position in the animal kingdom