I love that gorgeous man and want to beautiful beautiful babies with him.

Grey guys are great

Like, I get what you’re saying, but sorry, this looks abusive to you? I didn’t look this happy on my fucking wedding day

Ugh, how dare she walk around being all THIN and everything? The nerve of that woman!

Which is also why the “large” is called a “venti.” I’d be more amenable to this if their other sizes followed the same nomenclature. :/ AT LEAST BE CONSISTENT, STARBUCKS.

You’ll have to pry my Diet Dr. Pepper from my cold, dead hands.

Groupthink can be nice but even now and again, someone will say something shitty to you for no reason. Take it or leave it but I hope they are nice to you. Sounds like you are aware of the badness that can happen. Lots of subblogs have nice people too - have a rummage.

Trust fund babies who think being poor is a fun game to play make me physically ill.

I am - thank you for asking :). And I hope you find some solutions and answers too. I find scheduling things like exercise helps me get used to the idea of actually doing it. If you don’t know already - the folks over at Groupthink are always excellent for answering some questions about health. They have helped me in…

How many times has she read about how wrong her face is? How many times has someone posted video, meme, or comment about her nose, or her butt, or her boobs? So she goes out and buys new ones, but those ones aren’t right either, and then she gets to read and hear about how screwed up her body and face are?

I know, and you do deserve it.

If the person that you take to works for you, it can be a little awkward, but it can also work out. I had this come up once, where a very nice woman who did my nails wanted to make friends, and we did get so far as exchanging our personal numbers, but then I flaked out because now that we were friends I couldn’t deal…

My best advice is to try to give yourself the empathy you would give another person. I’m extremely empathetic, but never to myself. It’s advice that I admittedly have an impossible time following, but that’s what I’m working on right now. Trying to see myself and treat myself as I would any friend or stranger and give…

I’m sorry you are going through all this. There’s a book I love called Radical Self Acceptance by Tara Brach. In it there is a beautiful story of a woman who eats compulsively and is learning self love. I highly recommend it. You deserve to feel safe with yourself.

If you did it once, you can do it again! I’m trying to remember to acknowledge the things I accomplish every day, even if it’s trivial. When I beat myself up in my head, I try to stop thinking like that with a distraction - music, reading, tv - or picturing a stop sign in my head or turning the negative words into…

Eating can definitely be it’s own kind of self harm. I’ve gained 30 lbs in 4 years and just last week got on a real path to losing the weight. For me, it was like I’d feel bad about something and emotionally eat, then gain a couple of pounds and think ‘screw it, I already gained weight and look like crap, I might as…

!!! I love owls, how did you not lead with the owls?!!

God, I wish I could say something that would just magically rewire your brain into a self-love machine and pump out self-love hormones every minute of every day.

Hugs! Try not to be hard on yourself especially when medications are in the equation. Just try and take some walks to get out of your own head and err on the side of kindness with respect to yourself. As a confident person that wasn’t in my younger days fake the hell out of it until you got it ;) Good luck!

I want to pet a donkey named Punda!