Well, we’re all moved, but we have none of our stuff. So we’re living off an air mattress and getting a lot of cheap takeout. I’ve been enjoying the city, but today hubs was being a crabapple, so when he went out for a few hours, I indulged myself and just sobbed in bed for awhile. As exciting as a new place is, it’s…

Oh, there you are. I wondered when you’d show up. Thanks for illustrating so perfectly what I said above, to whit:

Let me get this straight. Sex work is rape, and if a person posts a picture of themselves in a swimsuit they deserve unsolicited commentary and are dumb. You’re a real asshole. So is Dworkin, actually. You’re not gonna win any hearts with this rhetoric here, I’d be on my way if I were you.

wow, u mad?

You’re assuming she does allow people to perform acts of violence and degradation against her, which I’m assuming she does not. When it’s a choice and not something you’re forced into, and something you’re able to put a stop to if it ever violates your rules, I venture to say there is little else in the world quite as…

.... Do you know what rape is.

Pfft, I AM the horny aunt in this equation, thankyouverymuch.

it sure is a weird euphemism for vagina

“Your Horny Aunt Will Love the New Magic Mike XXL Trailer”

And, DatBurnerIsMine, I know looks can be deceiving and stereotyping so easy to do— I am also a POC so I’m not really sure what you’re getting at.

What if you’re a radfem who wants to subvert your own political views by being tied and flogged by a moustached villain who may or may not tie you to model railroad tracks?

God, I know, right? People being into alternative things that have no discernable effect on your vanilla life are SO ANNOYING. Why can’t they just shut up and not do anything kinky like boring people?

I have a book recommendation Get Me Out of Here, by Rachel Reiland. If you haven’t already read it. She writes about what it’s like for her to have a severe personality disorder, and about her time in treatment, warts and all. What I think would be especially helpful is reading about her manipulation of those around…

It’s really hard to support a family member with mental illness, and mood disorders with personality disorder are particularly hard. I assume your sister is being treated by a GP and has a therapist/mental health team looking after her? AFAIK, NICE guidelines recommend Dialectical Behavioural Therapy for personality…

A platypus. I would pet myself and squeal over my existence all day. And purr.

At least you’ll get it eventually! Part of the reason for the bike is to also help tone my arse ;)

Thank you!

I am an opus. Opus is me, we have always been one

That server is from the fiery pits of hell. Too bad we can’t force non-believers to hang out in the loo with us. They could provide us with cool face towels, fresh magazines, and peppermint tea, while they learn all about food allergy aftermath.