I'm not talking about marriage, here. I'm talking about "falling in love." In that stage, you're developing a deeper emotional attachment.

My perspective on loss is not very sensitive. I have lost everything I owned thanks to a natural disaster. I have lost loved ones. I have lost my family. Etc.

Interesting. I like to cook from scratch as much as I can. I like cooking shows but haven't watched in ages and have never cooked along with one. I've also never made a recipe as it was written, because I'm too lazy to go to the store all the time to pick up stuff I rarely use... I always alter shit around what I've…

Yup!

I tend to fall fast and hard when I do fall for someone. It's more thrilling to me than anything else. I wouldn't describe it as hell because I'm basically high on the whirlwind of feelings and emotions that come for me when I experience infatuation.

I donno... that makes sense, but I think that a mature person that is capable of healthy relationships would know the difference between fearing a breakup and being believing that the actual falling in love bit is hellish.

I agree with you, personally. People tend to get very defensive re: love because I guess it sucks to feel like you or your experience is being judged, so I try to be sensitive to others... but at the heart of it, I personally believe that "real" (for me, unconditional) love is rare and often misunderstood. I feel…

The human experience is an individual thing. Love is different for everyone. I guess it's possible that falling love is hell for some people... personally, I would say that doesn't sound like love so much as "lust" or "infatuation." But I guess you need a clear definition of love before you go putting it in a box.

So, apparently I'm pansexual (I identified as bi until I learned about pansexuality), and I'm grateful for articles like this because I feel increasingly clueless about orientations now that more queer folk are being more open about how they feel.

What won't you forgive?

Well, my husband doesn't hate me - I hope? - but I know it drives him nuts that I'm not better at cleaning house. I've gotten much better about it, but I'm not a "suzy homemaker," as he puts it.

I was "gifted" (I guess I'm pretty smart, but it all kind of levels out once you're an adult, you know?). I was also completely fucked up by my mom. On one hand, she would tell anyone that would listen about what a fuckin' genius I was and how I could do all the things. She bragged to everyone, in front of me. So I…

Does it have to be a public meltdown? I once collapsed into a sobbing mess because my husband put my cat in our dog's very spacious dog kennel and my cat didn't like it. His meows broke my pregnant heart.

LOL "Why is this organic, natural product going bad?!"

LOL "Why is this organic, natural product going bad?!"

Gotta say, I just don't get kale. I've tried it a few different ways and it just isn't for me.

#notmywedding

Nah, I like my zukes cooked.

This, exactly this. I was lucky 'cause my mom made every frickin' meal from scratch and often made me help her. She used me for food prep, so I got to watch her work while being yelled at about how I was washing or cutting something. She wasn't actually a chef (in the sense that she had 0 training, but an incredible…

This. I couldn't care less what an adult does or doesn't like, as long as they're not unpleasant about it.

Well, it helps if you know what your specific issue is with stuff. Onions, for example - you might not like the flavor, or you might not like their texture in different preparations.