I don't know that the story itself was supposed to be one of sexual healing, I've always thought of the Vagina Monologues more as healing through speaking the words and telling the stories and giving voices to those women. But yeah, I have always been bothered and saddened by that particular story.

My most recent international editorial came out this week! It was the first time the photographer had ever submitted to a magazine, so it's awesome that he got an international publication! This is a screenshot of one of the images from the digital issue, my print one is coming from AUS.

Netflix, sleep, chocolate, OJ and Chinese takeaway!

Woah, are you and I twins? This actually happened with my last partner (who I had a ~*future*~ with and was long-distance with) and I, two days after our anniversary he went through my phone and blew a conversation way out of proportion, etc etc you know the rest. This is my advice:

Haha, the guy I'm seeing has the last name Hamm and makes similar jokes about my vegetarianism. Also, I agree with the others, definitely bring something small.

Amazing.

I see what you did there, and I like it.

What's the best way to get someone to stop asking you inane advice-oriented questions that you cannot possibly answer?

Ethnic bias is a thing invented by (racist) white people to justify offending non-white people. Outside of that deluded mindset, it's as much of an actual phenomena as ~*reverse racism*~.

A guy touched the tattoo on the back of my neck (didn't see him coming) and asked me if it was Japanese. My tattoo is Hebrew script, and I had a bad angle so I only sprained his wrist instead of breaking his fingers.

Cucumber Collins or Gin Ricky, I'm a gin drinker.

Ah, thank you!

Okay, what is the name of the song in the trailer? Someone help!

Yes, I feel naked because I'm 5'11" and that's a lot of leg to have exposed.

I...wasn't saying that? Obviously it's still problematic, but my statement was just a clarifying one, as a Jewish person familiar with this issue. A moderate rabbi in Israel isn't the same as a moderate politician in America.

Oh, Hugo neglected to mention that it's not pictures of female models as a whole, it's pictures of female models with cleavage and swimwear, too much skin showing (that was difficult to type) etc etc, the sexier advertisements.

I didn't mean to imply that there were only infrequent (attempted or actual) sexual assaults on Oberlin's campus, I'm specifically referring to incidents that occurred on campus but weren't perpetrated by students.

Oberlin has plenty of the same problems that exist on other college campuses. Actually, recently, there have also been a few attempted sexual assaults on campus, according to someone I know who goes there, and S&S has been pretty negligent in fixing certain facilities (in particular a door that was frozen shut from…

That is terrifying. I'm sorry that you had that experience.

Okay. This is actually a legitimate fear of mine, that a delivery guy who is only supposed to call me to let me know he's at the door (I live in a multi-unit building) will keep my contact information and call/text me like this. Once (about a year ago) at 3am when I ordered late night food a middle aged delivery dude…