No, I don’t mean that they’re the same thing. I think the tide is more switching to casual (multiple people you go on dates with/have sex with but wouldn’t, say, introduce to your friends or use as your emergency contact, etc.) *or* poly. I was in a poly relationship for a year and a half and the man I was with had…

After the hot mess that was Duran Duran: Unstaged, I was a little worried that David Lynch would continue with the theme of “I can do literally anything and everyone will act like they get it” and also tv has changed a lot in 25 years but I was highly satisfied and am excited to see where this continuation of a fever…

Oh my god, I am so sorry that you’re living in such a awful place (awful in terms of how you’re treated for being poly, maybe there are other things that are nice?). What the fuck is wrong with people that they are so put off by non-monogamy that they think any of that, let alone think it justifies violence?

Most the open/poly women in the social spaces/neighborhoods I hang out in are hot art school girls or nerdy hot sex positive girls. But I’m not looking for fit per se. My ideal is more like dad bod- would rather not see hip bones or be able to count their abs- but can run 5 miles without dying....so I guess more of…

I always make the first move. I’ve made a bargain with myself that I *have* to send a note to anyone I match with, because sitting around waiting for a dude to make an effort when men have generally got more options than I do isn’t going to work. Maybe they don’t like that? I’d think it would be a relief to have a…

Omg I could have written this myself. I also prefer monogamous - or at least monoamorous - relationships and they for sure seem to be dying out in favor of poly or friends with benefits or casual (with no intention of ever being *not* casual). If one more person tells me how unrealistic/unevolved wanting that is and…

Yessss. Yes. Yes. Yes.

Looks like Mother Nature is doing some housekeeping.

Ugh Jennifer Lawrence sit down and let the people who work there do their damn jobs. No one needs you up on that stage.

Oh, she was proven to be a shitty person loooooong before this. Also, let us all remember that her now ex wore blackface to a party so they are both awful.

The Pence family has a pet rabbit, Marlon Bundo, and he has an Instagram account. One of the photos says his favorite show is This Is Us. I’ve never seen it - isn’t this a pretty progressive show with a gay character or couple or something?

The pressure is bad. It’s really, really bad. There is still very much a set standard of beauty and after age 35 we start to depreciate in sexual/romantic value while men get to be considered attractive until they are in their 70s and can have “dad bod” and still be hot. Men are valued for being…

From an online dating perspective, it sure seems like *all* the men want non-monogamy (or at least the ones who are brainy and into the arts, which is what I look for). It’s hard to imagine even more women wanting it.

Bipolar lawyer solidarity! I hope you kick the bar exam right in its arbitrary, irrelevant to the actual practice of law face.

Sorry if this someone else already said this but:

I am so tardy to this party but:

This is a mostly emotional response and I know there are arguments to be made as to why what I’m about to say is wrong/inappropriate/etc. but:

At 15, it’s less “fucking an old dude” and more being groomed and being taken advantage of due to her age. And agency does not mean it has to result in action. A 15 year old can be attracted to whomever they like; their sexual desires are their own. But if it’s an adult - especially an adult in a position of power…

Right?! Or the girls that he told he’d be dating in a “few years, can you believe it?” - it happened twice, once with 14 year olds and once with a 10 year old.

Let’s not forget that Ted Nugent classic “Jailbait” where he talks about wanting to rape a 13 year old and suggests that instead of arresting him, a police officer should rape her, too: