Agree, at the BF/GF level it is a bad idea to share passwords. When we got married my wife and I were going to keep things separate like bank accounts, but it became such an obstacle to running our day to day lives that we just merged everything. I mean finances, not our Facebook accounts. We’re not monsters.

I’m sorry that your mother-in-law has cancer. But please remember that cancer does not turn an unsafe person into a safe person.

We haven’t had a password exchange ceremony, but we have a joint password manager so I could access his accounts if I wanted (and he could access mine). I suppose he could have some other email account that isn’t in the manager, but the day I start worrying about that is the day I’ve realized that there are some very…

My wife has my phone passcode and the pattern for my tablet. I have hers as well. Also, we have each other’s emails as the backups for password resets on GMail.

You just gave me a light bulb moment. Every individual has a specific need for privacy...yours is high, mine is nonexistent. My messy, fully immersed relationship would drive you crazy, but I’m peaceful with it so, here we are.

If I felt the need to search my partner’s accounts, there would be a huge problem regardless of whether I actually had the passwords or not. That sounds like a prescription for feeding insecurity. If she were going to do something she didn’t want me to know about, I’m quite confident she would have the ability to set…

We don’t share passwords specifically. It’s never really come up. But we do have the password to unlock each other’s phones. Once my phone is unlocked I am always signed into everything and vice versa. We share that password because occasionally we will ask the other to get on our phone and text someone or something.…

It’s not so much my husband and I keeping each other out of our digital space, it’s more not really caring to be in each other’s digital space. Between his gmail and work email accounts, my husband has 19,000 unread emails. (Not an exaggeration — that number on the ‘mail’ icon on his iPhone keeps growing.) Clearly…

I sometimes think that people are so insistent that “she knew” or “he must have known” because it makes them feel more secure in their own situation.

Don’t reply to me with prison rape jokes.

Has there ever been a good analogy/metaphor that was defended by “I knew you wouldn’t get it”?

But wasn’t there emails between subway officials claiming that this new woman in his life is a good thing and that the whole ‘child sex issue’ will be in the past? That is kind of how I remember reading it. They all knew except her.

We have security cameras in our home (my husband wanted them and set them up, and I really love them now that we work such different hours — we use them to send each other goofy messages).

I agree but it’s not like this is a case of someone accosting her on the street outside of a coffee shop. She sat down for an interview with a major network.

Donald, Jr. is the most slappable son. Eric is the most “thrust a crucifix in his face and dispatch him with a wooden stake”-able son.

The most disappointing thing about this election cycle isn’t the focus on “emails” to the point the word “emails” is shorthand for crime (where no crime exists) it’s that Trump HAS A HEARING FOR ACCUSATIONS OF CHILD RAPE IN 2 WEEKS AND NO-ONE IN THE TV MEDIA MENTIONS IT.

I just...I don’t know. Does she simply not understand the english language? Is that it? Does she just not comprehend what she’s saying? Or is she so tired that the words aren’t even registering in her brain, she’s simply reading shit aloud and not paying attention? I also heard her say today that over the years Donald…

YAS! Hooray for Lin! He seems like someone who is still so grateful that he gets to do what he loves. Also, he’s irrepressibly charming. I can’t. I just smile looking at him.

Relevant: Chris Jackson aka the Pride of Mount Vernon aka George Washington is standing behind him in this picture. I literally just saw Hamilton …

He is an above-average singer, but certainly below-(traditional) Broadway caliber. I love him and I love Hamilton, but the dude wouldn’t have been able to get a singing part in a Broadway musical if he didn’t write ‘em himself. So he wrote ‘em himself, like a brilliant person! Go Lin! :D

that sleeve of 100 in black or brown by goody. that’s where it’s at.