ok. but everything i have read so far, has made it clear that it is about power and not sex and about the rapist and not the victim of the act of sex. but i guess... i have no dog in this fight.

what? just getting accused cost me 10K.

i would be the same way, but the dude seems slow on the up take. so to me it is a wash. and she seems to be fast company.

1st i would say that rapist and all other men are worlds apart.

but you can only know that by asking, something women dont do. and google never finds the cases i look for.

dude, what the rapist thinks and his pathology have shit do with each-other ...

you being able to do that means you are not an addict. that does not change the face that some people are addicts. and its not their fault. its DNA lotto.

Actually your wrong. The people who do drugs and don't get high and the ones that become addicts are markedly different on a brain level. and those who can handle it are a 3rd group. but that 3rd group does not negate the fact that some people are doomed to be addicts.

I have read a lot of cases. And no helping is not consent. And I was speaking of my past events. I can say I was very passive. Also shouldn't I have the same protection under the law. Not saying no is not saying yes. And enjoying is not consent. I am only saying things I have read here.

I am not saying that. I am saying people who rape get off on not having the consent. The are not interested in a willing partner. The don't have sex, the have masterbation of a sort.

I was speaking of a percentage of gals that think one way, act an other and wish to avoid being seen as sexually aggressive. Like the gal that keeps saying she doesn't normally do "X". But, later you find out worse.

so you think he is some more than just a poor man-child to be pitied .

No. Rapist suffer from a pathology. Much like pedos and addicts. Not to say these things are all the same.

seeking out some to rape is not setting in bush waiting. In fact in the bush rapist are a small %.

no. If ones likes X, it is most out of their hands. You might be able to have analog. But given the risk and cost it should be clear it is a fixation.

I hear you. But, I really have to disagree. Rape is about power, and overpowering. not about deceit or lies.

would you ask a woman all that? woman, all the ones who sex me, always assume everything. and never ask shit. and never really have consent. and being hard is not consent. not pushing them off is not consent. me cumming is not consent.

being able to make a child, and having a real climax are not the same thing. Gay dudes make babies all the time. that don't mean they were fully hard and fully in the game. WTF! you really have no idea how much i know about this matter. so please just take my word for it. shit.

how do i non-verbally consent to a woman putting me in her mouth. (not that I would hate it) But, yea I can attest that I have never given permission for that to start and not shoving the lady away is not non-verbal-consent.

Cue all the Hutchison haters.