nah bro. fall is da best. fuckin best apples ever, beautiful sunny skies and crisp air..gtfo wit dis shit.

A couple of my single coworkers told me that they envy how nice my husband is to me. Like, how did I land this person who is nice? Um, because I am nice to him, too. And I am drawn to nice people. We treat each other with kindness (not 24/7, we’re both human and have bad moods and guess who bears the brunt of my PMS…

People ask me all the time why my wife and I have this apparently idyllic and wonderful marriage, and I always say the same damn thing: “we work really hard at it.” It’s not idyllic. It’s hard work, and means constantly giving of ourselves.

Thank you for being honest. I’m calling bullshit on the women saying that they’d find this cute and not creepy. Complete bullshit.

I saw this on Prudie the other day and couldn’t believe the comments that thought it was totally ok and not creepy. If I was this guy’s wife and he told me the real story behind our initial meeting I would reevaluate our entire relationship through that lens, wondering what other weird stuff had gone on unbeknownst to…

Been passed over more than a few times at work? Quit being a slob.

My big red list no-no’s - flour, sugar, dairy, and red meat

One of my pet factors that people don’t account for these days are how buying vs renting affects commuting. I have had several friends move from downtown apartments, in walking distance to work, move to a house in the suburbs with a 30+ minute commute.

Forewarning: I don’t think this is a wise procedure to use on you wife.

Even when I’m not looking for a new job I dress at or above our severely under enforced dress code that is very relaxed. I wear a dress a few days a week, I rarely wear tshirts ect. I would just prefer for any potential future managers to have a good impression of me from the get go.

Yep, I was going to say the same thing. We own our home and looking at our mortgage statement is depressing. SO MUCH of that monthly payment is interest, property taxes and homeowners insurance. Also, we just recently had roof damage and no landlord to call to fix it. Trust us, there are many, many ways for homeowners…

But you DON’T have 12k that you’re socking into your home; a portion of that goes to interest. Granted these days that’s a smaller portion than in the past, but who knows what the future will hold.

So, I got a makeover last week and was walking around with hot pink/yellow eyeliner and my workout clothes. And you know what? I felt awesome & got tons of compliments at car pickup. So I think it’s more about your comfort level (as cliche as that sounds) than about appropriate events. But if you need to dip your toes…

This actually makes me sad...it must suck to realize a lifelong friend simply sees you as a way to make a quick buck.

There’s giving compliments and there’s convincing people you like them. Your statement could be a verbatim quote of a couple of my long time friends. Every one of them felt invisible because they were engaging in self reinforcement of a belief that wasn’t true, and try as they might to tick the boxes on their social…

I use the Nyx gel and powder, they come together in a little kit, and I put gimme brow on top. Look for gimme brow samples! or look for it included in a Benefit kit. I got my sample size inside a bigger kit, and the kit was under $30, and the sample Gimme brow has lasted for months.

I dropped Ipsy after a couple of months. I was not impressed. I didn’t think they customized it nearly as much as they claimed to.

Yeah - most of these rules only work in a normal household. People who grew up in toxic/abusive families learned how to lie for self preservation. And a lot of us got -really- good at it.

Long ago I gave my daughter some advice concerning that very type of thing. People tend to reject people who seem overtly eager, even desperate. When you approach people, it is important to be very relaxed, which is why I tend to avoid people when I am feeling stressed out, they can pickup on your internal vibes.

If that’s literally true, then you should be grateful. Who wants friends if you’re just going to hate them?