I haven’t been this confused since she was cast as Elizabeth Taylor.

that might explain why after calling me a caricature of a feminist she seemed to expect me to spew transphobic invective at her and was surprised when i didn’t.

dare i ask what a cotton ceiling is? i’m afraid to google it if it has anything to do with MRA reasoning as i don’t want to get led to any of their sites/vortexes of hatred.

There was a trans woman who was a very loud and vocal supporter of Gamergate until they started harassing, stalking, and sending her death threats. She was horrified and amazed that they hated her just as violently as they hate all women, because she considered herself “one of the good ones” who didn’t actually…

Domestic violence is a world wide problem. There is no magic country where it doesn’t happen. Women and children are maimed or murdered by family members with a variety of weaponry every fucking day somewhere. Nobody can afford to be smug about it. Just some people love to feel superior towards other nationalities…

Funnily enough, telling OBGYNs about my history of sexual assault is what changed Pap smears from hellish to bearable for me. When I’d just say, “Pap smears are incredibly painful for me, please be gentle” they’d say, “Yeah, yeah,” and then merrily scrape away, and I’d be in agony. Now that I say, “I was raped and Pap…

It seems a little silly to have a “butcher's block” counter top that you can’t use as a butcher’s block.

That exposed edge, tho. Ouch.

Well, rape by deception is a complicated area. If you tell someone you’ve got six million dollars (and you haven’t), and he sleeps with you in the hope that you’re going to be his sugar mama or daddy, he’s an idiot and you’re a jerk, but it isn’t rape.

Right? If you’re going to use the grays (with which I disagree, but that’s another conversation), farking USE THEM. Obvious troll is obvious.

WOMEN: if you are having an ouchy in your no-no parts, please go see a “down there” doctor about your you-know-what. Your lady business is a serious matter and hoo-hah health is essential to the very survival of our species.

I’m hoping to build that into the hen do. This is the same guy who said that lesbians all tend to look the same (read: butch) and said that I was lucky to have the ‘luxury’ of being disabled and routinely bed-bound because I got to lie around in bed all day. I think his brain is lacking some vital thinkamins.

And then your friend heard him terminated the engagement and joined you in firing him to pluto in a bucket, yes?

WHAT THE ACTUAL FUCKING SHIT

My friend’s fiancé was once like ‘Hohoho, if you rape a prostitute, is it rape or shoplifting, hohoho’ and I practically shouted ‘It’s rape, sex with someone who does not or cannot consent is rape, please stop talking immediately’.

Aaaaand there it is. I knew thread was on its way

This is so sad and awful and no and stop. While we’re at it, I despair of people who feel the best way to be outraged over misogyny is to be really fucking racist, when 24 people per minute are victims of rape, violence, or stalking in the US and two women are killed by current or former partners every week in England…

Awesome men of many nationalities rarely make the news. Bad men do. We have acid attacks in the UK as well - some of whom are by done by women and men. See the cases of Naomi Oni and Katie Piper.

This almost worked for me, until I realized that it was on Netflix and I spent the day watching it, instead of cleaning.

#11: Binge-watch Hoarders.

I have discovered that I can overcome the sentimentality aspect if I take a picture of things I am discarding before I toss them. I put those photos in a folder on my backup drive, and it makes parting with the actual object easier. I remember reading somewhere that sentimental people worry that they will forget…