I get why people don't like bull fighting but what is wrong with the running of the bulls? It's been on my bucket-list for a long time.

So to stop child porn they are making child porn?

I wasn't thinking of that as the metric for success.

That said marriages where people are happy tend to have give and take. It's important to try to be happy and make each other happy.

The people I see in arranged marriages simply seem more committed to that idea on average. I makes sense because you have to grow a…

Physical attractiveness? People change. Chemistry? You can make it good or bad.

I can't see getting a divorce for either of those reasons. To me having them are a bonus ... but they are a poor foundation for a life-long relationship.

What must work is that both people want the same kind of relationship and are…

A fridge is more energy efficient when it is full. So even if you just put bottles of water in there you can save electricity.

It's cute how some people get freaked out by arranged marriages even though in non-coercive societies they are often quite successful.

I find the notion of spontaneous romantic love far more absurd. We are all taught that we'll just naturally bump into the right one. What BS! Why leave it to random chance?

I feel lucky…

Even then they wonder if your ribs are showing because you are lazy.

This is why I bought the smallest fridge I could find with a real freezer. What was telling was that my fridge is not energy star but uses much less energy than energy star rated large fridges.

I think energy star should take size in to account.

Also art that needs a sign like that is failing at some level in my eyes.

This kind of thing is why I stopped liking almost all contemporary art. It just feels so childish and heavy-handed. CONTROVERSIAL yet apolitical art is just depressing.

Like Jeff Koons who is the master of apolitical shock and shlock and he's rich so many people emulate him....

I never found the crows to be as racist as some other disney crap. The real issue is that that was the only way you'd hear black voices at that time.

Even now representations of black people are really limited.

why do butt implants cause so much fascination when breast implants are almost normalized?

I hardly know who she is. But she seems to work outside the home more than most of the trust fund wives I know.

So what is the big deal?

ugh it sounds like the "all serial killers are white" bogus theory slowed down the investigation.

but sex work is always so empowering!

This is the essential BS that bi people put up with.

I've found therapy for depression to be really frustrating. I have the impression both of the therapists I had were just bored or annoyed. I'm fascinated by people who have good therapy. How is that even possible? I was disappointed that neither therapist made suggestions. Just having someone listen is really useless…

The New York City where people drive cars everyday and everyone is white.

WTF.

The only people who care about math and science are white men and some Asian/Indian guy who is given no romantic life.