I, too worked at DQ. First job, hate it because of my asshole boss and supervisors. Was eventually written out of the schedule as well.

Totally agree. I would not hold this standard to non-Chinese attendees. Even for the Chinese attendees that don't feel like giving money, I'd be totally okay with gifts as well.

While I am equally appalled by the bride's response, you have to consider culture when talking about weddings. In the Chinese culture, the attendees pay for their dinners and do not give gifts. For myself personally, I'd be happy with anything.

A few years ago on New Years Eve, I was flirting with a guy and half drunk when I stumbled a little. Instead of grabbing my arm to straighten me out, he grabbed my boob. I said to him, "You just grabbed my boob!" He apologized and said it was an accident and I believed him. Now that I know better, it's so obvious he's…

What do you guys say to the douchecanoes that are adamant about women wearing make-up for men as the only reason why women wear make-up besides, "fuck you?"

You know...I've seen this message before. I can't remember if I had received this message as well or if I saw it while moderating on the site...

One day while walking down the street in Chinatown to visit a friend, I see a tourist lady chase down an Asian man pushing a dolly. She had her camera in her hand and I thought she wanted to ask him if he can take both her and her friends' picture. I was about to offer them help taking the picture when I realized she…

I took an unplanned shower by candlelight. Unplanned because the power went out.

No one has said in hash brown form! With sunny side up eggs mashed into it *nomnomnom*

Ha! I am 26 now but I used to play Neopets when I was 18. I wonder if my account is still active....

No, I was not high last night. It was a genuine question.

Yes, every single one of my friends whom have driven under the influence has said this. I asked you guys because I know you all are rational, responsible people while on the other hand, my friends are not. The answer seems pretty obvious now that I've had 5 of 6 replies basically say the same thing but like I had…

I can totally relate! Don't know if you've caught this show but from what my limited Cantonese has gathered, it looks like a game show with a whole bunch of men dressed in colorful outfits basically making the women on the show do degrading things.

Thanks @Ol' Auntie Em and Veit for the reply. I have always wondered this but outside of my little circle of friends, I didn't know what to believe. I guess I'll be DD for not only the drunks but for the potheads now too =(

So I apologize if this has already been asked but should people always avoid driving while high? I ask because a few of my friends say that they can actually drive better while high while others say that it's like drunk driving and should be avoided. I have let friends drive me around while they were under the…

I was also a victim of sibling abuse. Thank you for sharing your story and I'm happy to hear that you took the necessary steps in preserving your well-being by cutting all contacts with your abusive brother. You absolutely did the right thing =)

It's important that you don't replace smoking with something else. I read The Easy Way to Stop Smoking by Allen Carr and it helped me stop smoking. I highly recommend it. And good luck!

I had a Plenty of Fish account but ended up deleting it because most of the people on there were really weird. Also, the ads that would pop up for me were soliciting Asian women in a manner that seemed kinda trafficky to me. What's weird is that I'm only interested in men so I'm not sure exactly why I was getting…

Argh, that's what I'm trying to avoid but it's gonna happen eventually whether I answer or not, I guess. One guy asked me if I thought we were compatible and assured me that he'd understand if I said we weren't. So I told him, you're a nice guy but I don't think we're compatible. He messages back, "you don't even know…

Ha, that works too. Thanks!