That works, I'm always worried about hurting feelings and I end up prolonging my rejection message by babbling. Thanks!

Me, too. Also no sex in more than three years...

Hello! What do you say to a guy you're no longer interested in after messaging back and forth a couple of times on OkCupid? I want to be straightforward but also not rude...lemme know!

What animal do you NOT want taking a test?

Thanks! Yes, my other option was also to be blunt. "You should kiss me" was what I was thinking. I couldn't see it happening any other way because he's not very touchy feely either. If he was, the transition would be so much easier! I think a person who can state what they want in this case bluntly, is very sexy! I'm…

I'll have to find a way to get close first lol but yeah, if I see an opportunity, I'm going to take it!

Ok that's two votes for short walks, I'm gonna do it! And yea, I'm already killing myself for not kissing him this last date, I can't wait any longer!

....wait, is this real?

That's so great! I bet he'll be replying a lot faster now huh?

I am totally trying this! Lucky me, I have all the ingredients =)

On the second date, I lingered a little in his car but he was so far away. I didn't know how to close the space. We drink every time we've gone out but apparently not enough because the courage hasn't come lol. I shall try your walk/bench idea. Thanks!

On date number three with this guy and we still haven't kissed yet. I used to be good at putting out the vibe that it's okay to kiss me but I haven't dated anyone seriously/been intimate with anyone for a long time and as a result, I've become kinda shy. That awkward moment at the end of the date when it might happen…

Hmm...doggie hurts for me as well but I think it depends on their size. Doggie with my less endowed ex didn't hurt. Missionary and cowgirl ftw as well =)

Anddddd I am now following these pages on tumblr. Thanks for the additional distractions!

I've also disabled my account many times but usually only for a few weeks. I check it daily and answer questions every so often just to get my profile on the main page. Hope that helps =)

I've had the account since October 2011. I started out getting a lot of messages but now, not so much =(

That's a great idea! I'd wonder if it would be an infringement of privacy though.

I've seen obscene pictures of both guys and girls but at the same time, those naked pictures of girls might be spammers. I find dick pictures to be hilarious as a moderator. Not so much if it's someone messaging me though.

I was given moderator status about a month ago and based on the message I received, I believe it was because I was an outstanding and dedicated member. So maybe if you've had your account for awhile without being flagged by other users, you'd be given this extra feature. It's a lot of fun!

Um yeah...I should be working on this paper but I'm having too much fun being a moderator on OkC. My favorite is moderating trolly messages. Anyone else getting distracted from real life with this new feature?