I am calm, but thanks
i-am-calm-but-thanks
2/9/20
9:42 AM
9

I see this advice all the time. I think I may try it, but perhaps more with women. My hesitation has always been the time committment and difficulty escaping if the other person is boring/creepy/whatever. You can have one drink and then leave.

2/1/20
9:14 AM
10

I am hoping to up my sexy underwear/lingerie collection. I don’t have much luck online. I really like to try certain items on or at least see and touch them. So I am doing something I rarely do, going to a few real life stores to shop. I feel trying to find nice underthings can be as ego deflating as swim suit Read more

1/30/20
11:35 AM
8

Someone I'm dating (who is fantastic) used the love word. Its obviously flattering and amazing, but I am more thrown than expected. I feel like a stupid teenager.

1/25/20
10:39 AM
10

I kind of want this job just for 1-2 years It pays $35-40 per hour, you live in the pool house for free, get a car, and go on rich people vacations. Then you can write a trashy novel about crazy rich people. Read more

1/24/20
2:30 PM
4

I am kind, but I also owe less alimony if she can become somewhat financially independent. I am no angel.

1/24/20
2:29 PM
1

To clarify, neither of us thinks the other person is too good to be true. We are both deeply flawed and damaged humans. As most of us are except a few lucky ones I guess. I think the too good ro be true part is how much fun we have together.

1/20/20
9:55 AM
17

I went to a burlesque show with someone I'm dating and got birthday drunk. Yesterday had a nice dinner with a friend. Also napped a lot. Its been fucking great.

1/16/20
10:21 PM
4

I have seriously left work mid day to work from home because the people next to me (in an open office floor plan) were discussing the stomach flu they had. I worled from home for 3 days. I was avoiding the germs AND their descriptions of the illness.

1/2/20
10:49 AM
5

This is a brilliant approach. We are taught to avoid rejection when they are actually just milestones on the path to success. Good luck!

12/31/19
4:25 PM
10

I love going out, but usually not on NYE. Relaxing at home in pajamas and eating pizza. Its great. May bake something.

12/8/19
2:53 PM
2

Hmmm. Worth considering. The Crème fraîche is an optional topper for the apple crisp (instead of boring vanilla icecream) so can be skipped.

12/8/19
2:50 PM
4

Mmm. I was thinking of adding a little honey this time or even pomegranate seeds. Walnuts sound good though.