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Sep 17
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This isnt advice you want, but can you get married now and have a nice reception, etc. later?

Sep 11
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Tammy Faye says its been a hard week.

Sep 3
5

I am so sorry. My offer stands. I am here if you need to talk. Read more

Aug 30
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The coworker or ENM in general?

Aug 30
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Fine to ask. Current relationship was sexually open from the start which required lots of “renegotiating” as our feelings for each other intensified and developed. We went from casual fuck buddies to really being in love and having some emotional monogamy. Yes. I’ve had pings of jealousy, but that happens in monogamy Read more

Aug 30
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Avoiding colleagues is wise. Taking it slow is wise. None of us are 100% secure enough for anything though. That also assumes monogamy is safer, easier, lower risk,etc. which is not always true. Good luck

Aug 30
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Its not really an affair if its ok with everyone. Its ethical non-monogamy. Its more common than you think. I’ve done this off and on (ranging from 3somes with partner to open). My current primary relationship is open. We are free to have sex with others, but have a special emotional connection that is just for us. Read more

Aug 28
4

I feel you. I wish people were less subtle and more blunt.

Aug 28
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I would rather have 2 pairs of pants that fit than 5 shitty pairs of pants. But yeah, its insane how hard hard it is to find something that fits.

Aug 28
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I am sorry this happening. You mention a psychotic break. I am guessing there are some underlying or recent mental health struggles that make you suspect he is behaving not like his usual rational self.

This is how my ex’s psychosis began. Accusing me of cheating. Going through my call and text history on our online Read more

Aug 22
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Needed to shop and clean today. Instead did fuck all. Slept in and cuddled with my sweetie. Now drinking wine in my pj’s about to watch true detective.

Aug 21
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Tammy Faye doing some yoga.

Aug 13
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I didn’t fret too much. Hard to know the right thing to do these so I respect alternate views. I don't have the answers. Trying to find a balance. We are taking precautions and doing mostly outdoor stuff.

Aug 12
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This is reassuring. After spending basically my entire adult life with the same person, doing these things with someone new is daunting. Its like being a nervous teen all over again.

Aug 12
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Yeah. We’ll get tested and the reason for car trip/camping is so we can flex plans if needed.

Aug 5
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He was late because his basement flooded, but then it was a great night.

Aug 5
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It's not easy!!

Jul 23
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There is Bengies. Also, savage mill was doing some kind of drive in movie set up every friday, but they may be sold out. I will keep my eye out for more.