Ok I need to share. I left a terrible, emotionally-abusive marriage two years ago. I haven’t dated since then. I was working on myself and focusing on my two little men and work. Anyway, last night after what seemed like an eternity, I finally GOT SOME. From a HOT 24-year-old (I’m 34). It was exactly what I needed it…

I love you, it is okay. EVERYTHING WILL BE OKAY. HERE IS WHAT YOU DO...

I’m just going to post this again. I lost 15 pounds since mid-April. I have so much more to go but this is encouraging.

DYING from happiness. Also this GRAPHIC kitchen nightmare that happened earlier.

I read an interview once with a guy who runs men’s behaviour change programs. He said that without fail they would come in blaming their partner, saying “She just kept pushing my buttons and I lost control of my temper, I couldn’t help it.” And he would ask “So this anger problem that you have, do you ever get really…

Just became exclusive with someone for the first time. He’s super respectful of my boundaries and looks at me like I’m the best thing ever.

So I’ve been frustrated at work because of one idiot. He basically ruins the atmosphere and talks shit about coworkers and just creates this toxic environment. And he’s totally delusional and has zero sense of how people actually regard him. And I’ve had to work with him closely for the past 3 weeks and am just SO…

I need to vent somewhere to people who are not my friends (who have heard it all already):

Thanks. I wish he would have just told me instead of disappearing. I feel like such a fool.

I think you need to change your mind around this “I’m not enough” business. Seriously, he probably just wanted something easy, not something difficult, and the girl near him is easy, not difficult. That’s all. It’s not that you’re not enough for difficulty, or that she’s better than you because she’s easy. It’s simply…

I just discovered my ex has a new girlfriend. The ex I thought I might maybe some day marry. The ex that ghosted me and broke my heart.

You’re right that sexual autonomy should not be for sale and cannot be bought. What you’re failing to see is that the women you’re talking about are all people who are capable of making decisions about their own bodies. That we *are* sexually autonomous. And just because sex that involves an explicit financial…

Oh hey so an ex of mine who is now married, and has been for a few years, is coming on to me and totally angling to hook up. I’m not looking for advice or to vent or anything, I just had to share because I’m slightly dumbfounded that - yup! - this shiz actually happens! Like the sex, admittedly, was utterly fantastic…

Your argument that sex work bypasses consent and that it is “paid rape” is one that has been used by plenty of men who actually do rape sex workers and by cops who refuse to take those sex workers statements, prosecutors who refuse to bring the case, and judges who deem the sexual assault of a sex worker to be “theft…

So here is a question I’ve always wondered about in regard to those who think like you:

Truth. I have co-workers who complain about not having any money, but buy breakfast & lunch each day, and go for afternoon coffee every day. I brown bag it & bring a Thermos of coffee everyday and don’t have to worry about paying for a trip this summer. (Not trying to sound superior here, just comparing spending…

I’m sorry for your loss.

My dad died on March 16. Someday’s are fine, others, like today, I haven’t left my pajamas and I haven’t showered since wednesday. I need to wash my bedspread and some clothes, but even going to the laundromat seems to be too much.

Anyah; this could be a beautiful opportunity for you.

Hi, everyone! I have been going through some rough times lately and decided to start a project that will be good for my soul: I’m going to create an amazing personal library of books that I adore. I went to my local independent bookstore and purchased a few of my all-time favorites today. I plan to build on this every…