But it IS harmful if it is causing her to go into debt or (and this is a guess) ignoring her real family. If she's going into debt and not working, how is she keeping her living teenage children safe and cared for? And speculation here, I would guess that she is justifying (at least internally) not working because she…

"And don't say the answer is internet porn, because I know it predates internet porn."

You do know that a "bear" in the gay community is a big, hairy guy. ;-)

If you "need a partner" you're doing it wrong ;-)

Well, I have only anecdotal evidence to support my statement - although, I am a gay man who has had a - shall we say - very active sex life in Washington, DC. ;-)

Most guys use their dominant hand. Right-handed guys use their right hand and lefties their left. Not sure what information your comment is based on.

I would totally wear these pants!

If it helps to give greater weight to one mind over the other, I'm a man and I'm totally objectifying these images of men.

I watch his matches FOR his end.

Oh, I get that that's the point. I'm just saying that my re-action is completely opposite (and perhaps irrationally strong) of someone with ASMR - which surprises me to discover.

Some sickness, but more intense, irrational rage (I originally typed "aggravates" because I didn't want to seem like a lunatic). I actually read about misophonia from another of Jesus' comments here - definitely a real possibility for me. The more you know...

And now I'm exploring misophonia. Hmmm...

Wow. This video only aggravates the shit out of me. I've done a lot of work in my day to curb my impatience with people, and trying to watch and listen to this ruins all of that. Clearly this brings me no pleasure - I wonder what that means?

I'm listening to that now and I just want to scream at this guy for talking so slowly and making all those weird background noises. Seriously, STOP moving that paper around - or whatever that noise is. Clearly my reaction is anger and rage. Not at all relaxing. LOL

5 days away from email sounds amazing!

The fact that the marbles don't line up on the steps one at a time each time drives me nuts. Sometimes it's two marbles, sometimes it's one, sometimes it's NONE!!!!

Everyone! Or at least me. Makes me horny as fuck. I mean, I've heard that it makes people horny as fuck... But then there's "coke dick" which I've only heard about from other people...

But it is for me = homo.

But there IS science to back up the minimalist shoe movement. And, frankly, if you've never tried wearing them, you have absolutely no idea how they feel. I'm wearing my Vibram Bikila LS right now at work which is mostly an office job, but occasionally takes me out on our back nature trails or through the paved paths…

I JUST saw it here on Deadspn through Facebook and I don't follow any organized sports. So, yeah, it is being seen.