The cheating bastard deserves all the anger, but the other woman deserves some too. She didn’t fuck your man because she wanted dick, she did it to prove she is hotter than you.

The thing that always frustrates me is these guys are always saying “NO ONE” will date them when they usually mean “No one who’s 5’5” with 38-28-36 measurements and a Maxim spread who likes to watch anime with me and make me sandwiches.” Granted, this particular guy had deeper issues, but as a formerly lonely nerdy…

It’s somewhat astonishing to me to compare how women are taught to function with insecurity versus how men typically do so. American women have been socialized for generations to feel insecure, particularly about their appearance and desirability. Typically that energy is turned into self-hatred, or aimed at other…

I agree and think its correlated and exaggerated by a cultural element. What I know as toxic masculinity definitely plays into the sense of entitlement, power and privilege men like this exhibit when they go on mass murders.

It’s like they want and expect women to be there willing and eager to bang them anytime, anywhere, any way that they want, basically, their own personal, opinion-less and voiceless fuck dolls that they can treat as less than human, while simultaneously throwing a fit and shouting that any woman who dares have sex with…

I would say describing that movement as self-righteous might be a little much. I think it’s perfectly reasonable not to publish photos and the name of the shooter, while still being able to discuss the underlying motivations. I think their sense of entitlement spurs their rage and frustration and the notoriety is…

I’m surprised someone hasn’t tried to give the whole “girls don’t sleep with me so I’m murderous” thing a name in the hopes of legitimizing it. Like testicular retention induced psychosis. Or a friendlier sounding “He had a case of the jizzblocked cranial crazies.”

you are a pragmatic and no-nonsense lady after my own heart:)

I, like another poster, am a Diva Cup using scientist, but I just can’t fathom needing this information! Maybe if I had heavier flow, but after 6-7 years of the cup, I’ve never filled it. Also, part of the wonder of the Diva Cup is that you spend 30-50$ and keep it for up to 5 years, and you make so much less waste.…

I’m so exhausted by people shitting on monogamy. I don’t shit on your lifestyle choice, don’t shit on mine. And enough with the straw men. Monogamy isn’t imperative, we never said it was. You do you and STFU about it, for the love of god.

This show is fucking garbage. Normalizing affairs and making them look ok IS NOT OK. They are hurtful and traumatic. Yeah some relationships are complicated but if BOTH partners agree with the extra person(s) involved thats ok because BOTH consented. BUT when one does it behind your back and says nothing THAT IS NOT…

This is faulty logic. Murders have always been a thing but it doesn’t mean you should do it. If you’re bored after 30 years of marriage and your partner isn’t ok with you getting tail on the side or has an expectation of monogamy, then get a divorce instead of thinking your own needs are higher than everyone else.

While I totally agree that most cheaters are doing something awful, I’m inclined to agree with Dan Savage that cheating does not HAVE to be a “relationship extinction-level event.” It’s taken as a given in our culture that a single affair will necessarily destroy a marriage or a long term relationship, that once a…

This is what happens when people badly want to normalize something in order to shift guilt off themselves. Next we will hear from evolutionary psychology pundits on how it is natural for people (men) to cheat due to wanting to lay their seed in the wombs of as many women as possible.

The affair is both their responsibility. How he wrecks his family is his responsibility.

This is a very problematic topic. For example, if you have two people who both agree that they will marry but will be comfortable with some straying within some specific parameters, then hey! Go for it! I do believe that traditional marriage isn’t necessarily a one-size-fits-all thing.

You keep doing this all the time. Saying dumb shit and then accusing people of being hostile to you when they’re trying to make you understand.

I read your “explicit” sentence. Posting about it in the first place and then tacking on that sentence is roughly equal to starting a sentence with, “I mean, no offense, but....[something dumb and offensive].”

I can’t bring myself to spend $20 at target on PJs...I want them, put them in my cart, and abandon them every time. I just can’t spend money on stuff I’m sleeping in. I want to be one of those gorgeous women in beautiful lingerie putting on hand lotion before bed at my perfectly appointed vanity, but I always end up…