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Same! My best friend and her fiancé cancelled their Nov wedding back in April when it became clear that this was not going to go away. They just did a courthouse thing this week and I got to watch on FaceTime, and I cried my eyes out. I know that when they do have a big celebration and repeat their vows, I will cry…

“When pressed on the issue by Twohey, Rotunno claimed that the blame should “rest equally.” Men should be held accountable for forcing themselves on women but women must also accept the blame for not being careful enough, or purposeful enough in their intentions, or stronger.”

If you’re in NYC, go hang around the Irish Arts Center - that’s where he has been working for a few years. Fyi, he looks almost exactly the same.

A rapist / rape-apologist.

Only if you’re willing to part with many hundreds of dollars to do it right. I wouldn’t recommend a non-professional bleach job from naturally dark hair to platinum blonde because you can seriously ruin your hair. It was an expensive process to get to the color I wanted, and while I don’t regret it, I certainly won’t…

oh wow, good eyes. I didn’t even see that. But wait, where is her real hair? Is it tucked under that wig? Did she shave it off? Anytime I try on a wig, my head looks weirdly misshapen bc of all my hair tucked inside. But I guess Shay’s wigs are probably nicer than the ones I play around with...

Her eyeliner IS amazing. But I don’t think that’s a wig - that’s what happens to people with naturally really dark, luscious hair that decide they want to chop it off and go platinum for funsies. That’s the work of many rounds of bleach, but it’s hard to get the roots very light for very long. I should know, I did the…

Your mom is my hero

where can i buy a copy of this poster???

Or mass murderer, yes. Strangulation/choking is huge red flag when it comes to that. I posted a WP article on this comment list but I don’t really know how kinja works so I don’t know if you can see it, but here’s one line from the article: “The U.S. Sentencing Commission recognized strangulation as a marker of…

Strangulation is one of the forms of abuse most likely to lead to the abuser escalating to murder. I guess the judge missed the memo on that one. Well, maybe it won’t happen again. I mean, sure, let’s ignore the facts and hope for the best, what else can we do, right?

I’m going to a wedding in Italy this summer. It’s going to be expensive, but my husband and I never took a honeymoon last year after we got married, so we’re taking advantage and just traveling after this wedding. It will be expensive, but she’s also one of my closest friends who I have known for 21 years, and I’m…

Huh, another white man with a history of domestic abuse who goes on to commit violence on a larger scale...it almost seems like a pattern...

Well, in HIS story, all he does is ask her to stop texting. But in HER story, she said that he was making her uncomfortable and I’d venture to say that she was likely texting a friend for advice on how to get out of the situation. Do I like it when people text at the movies? Absolutely not. But do I think an asshole…

your nana and my mama both!

Yeah, the stuff was only ever worth it on sale for 30% or more off. Most of my work wardrobe is from Modcloth shopping sprees during flash sales and Black Friday deals. Guess I’ll have to find another place to outfit myself in the coming years :(.

i’m 31, which means I’m lumped in the “millennial” generation and I could DEFINITELY identify that little click of the other phone being picked up...my mom liked to listen in on my calls to make sure we weren’t talking to boys. :/

Even more sadly, this is true for much of the world, not just Poland.

this makes me want to watch this show! or maybe just search youtube for clips, cause i have no interest in any other parts of the show.