I am more on vocal cues rather than visual but I usually try to follow logic on verbal cues of doing things, all of that stuff in blaming you with the first incident and then having a plan that logically makes sense then not actually following it is so stupid and tiring.

Check out the 4 horsemen of tge apocalypsis, criticism is the first “horsemen”. Read any book from Dr Gottman, the authority on marriage and couples. My fave is 7 principles of a happy marriage. I think its called that:)

Ugh. Hate that shit. Is this a new thing for him? He stressing about work or something? Ask him what’s up, tell him how you feel about the attitude, and if he tries to blow it off, try this approach (old gf did this with me and it was effective): You don’t want to talk now? Ok. Then I choose (pick a time and place…

ME: tolerance and peace is the best way to go through life. we shouldn’t infringe on somebody who’s just doing what they want
ALSO ME: we should destroy every teen

“As I have always said, let ObamaCare fail and then come together and do a great healthcare plan. Stay tuned!”

And do you know I respect Smashmouth more than Morrissey, because, no one in that band, to my knowledge, has ever said racist things repeatedly or spent a lifetime being a dick?

It’s like if Crazy Ex Girlfriend were about Rachel moving to West Covina for Valencia instead of Josh!

I usually do black jeans + whatever top I havent cut the sleeves off of. In the winter I do black jeans + cotton cashmere men’s jcrew sweaters.

Blazers + solid-color t-shirts are great, and you can take the jacket off when you go outside. If you don’t hate cardigans, those work too; large button-down shirts (this kind of thing: http://www.jjill.com/jjillonline/product/product.aspx?item=FC005A&rPFID=15&sk=M&h=M, cheaper versions available all kinds of places)…

I like all the above suggestions. My strategy: find a source of comfortable (stretchy but not clingy) work-appropriate dresses and get several. Then you only need to choose one item to get dressed! They work in summer with bare legs or winter with tights & boots. You can put a jacket or cardigan over them for warmth…

I literally just went through this! I have tattoos and just landed a job after moving to LA and its at a fairly conservative place. The bet thing I could do was go with a capsule wardrobe, mostly black and white. I got these pull on, no wrinkle pants that I KNOW fit me well and bought them in 4 colors. The shirts are…

No office job, but the office ladies at my work seem to get away with straight cut cargo pants and dress shirts. Government employees ( I live in a government town and scope people for dress clothes options cause my default is grubby redneck) seem to get by with dress pants, flats, and collared shirts in florals.

I just saw three youngs walking down the street in these, and they were all reasonably good looking, and they all looked awful. Really hard to find a version of this that flatters.

Buy one pair of well fitting black pants that are light weight (do not buy 100% linen, too much upkeep) - then buy a bunch of tops that go with these pants - neutrals with a simple cut are your friend - white, beige, cream, black print

I’m not allowed to wear dresses, but even if I could, this would make me look like a fancy potato.

What do you mean? White women are incapable of understanding that they live in a culture where they are valued over women with darker skin tones by men and society in general? And some could actually be disgusted and horrified by that? Any white woman in an interracial relationship would understand that people will…

Dangit, you did get here before me! But it is a complicated issue. Research has shown (oh yes, I’m going there) that when eating disorders are seen as powerful challenges that can be overcome it makes it seem as though eating disorders are one struggle that can make you “find yourself.” So people WITHOUT eating…

I mean personally I was delighted reading your fake comment plot, alone, and wish you would write that screenplay BUT to each their own and I understand that this shit really grates after a while.

HE LITERALLY GHOSTED HER!

This is great. To celebrate I’m going to have a big pile of coal for dinner!