*pat* *pat* Good on you!

I JUST had sex for the first time in two years. It was my New Years resolution and I take my goals very seriously.

1) I love that quote. It really hits at the real difference. 2) Thank you for the Everlane rec! I could actually afford to shop there.

That totally makes sense! A couple months ago, my mom was wine-drunk asked me how many “lovers” *shudder* I keep in touch with from college. I was like, “um...I didn’t have that many. Wait how many did you have?” And she just laughed and laughed. It was unsettling.

Been there!

LIZZY CAPLAN IS MY QUEEN. How good is she in Masters of Sex??

This is so lovely :)

Oh totally! If someone is nice to and about everyone, I don’t trust them when they’re nice to me. They’re obviously faking it at least part of the time!

I know! I feel like I keep testing them to see if they’re date-rapists.

I SO feel you. I’ve been actually dating this guy recently, and I like him. Everytime I hang out with him, I wait for the other shoe to drop and for him to reveal that he’s a secretly racist scientologist who wants 7 kids. But he keeps being awesome!

How many times during the interview did they gloss over or substitute a different word for rape?

Ugh, I’m hoping WAY less.

I mean, she is 17. She's supposed to be annoyingly self-important, and will hopefully grow out of it.

Ha! I just said the exact same thing! I kind of feel bad for him, because first break-ups are hard. But mostly I think he's a douche.

Truth. And mine only lasted 3 years. This guy totally thought he beat the odds and managed to live happily ever after. Lol.

Finally I find other people who are excited about this! Nobody has known what the hell I was talking about when I was yelling about this! I thought it just wasn't a thing for anyone else.

Good topic! When I first started living alone, I was polishing off like a bottle of wine a night. That was my activity for weeknights: watch Netflix and get drunk. And then I would drink a little less on the weekends.

I can't star this enough.

Amber Riley!!!!! She and sing and now we know she can dance.

Well if you like man-on-man, I recommend Latter Days. Lots of build-up and then a very hot sex scene. And then some sadness (but not, like, AIDS sadness.)