Don’t forget not mentally ill.

This eggface reminds me of Invader Zim. I like it.

Will find and can find are two different things. I don’t believe in one true loves or fated romances, but I do believe that in a world of 7 billion people with incredibly diverse tastes, it’s ridiculous to think someone should give up because “they’ll never find someone”. I think it’s that giving up that leads to so…

Not everyone meets the lid(s) to their pot, but they are out there. I’m not talking about some kind of one true love bullshit. I mean that if you are willing to not be shallow yourself and get to know many kinds of people then there is somebody out there that could love you and that you could love. Being practical…

I think the problem is, I don’t know you well enough to know what could be causing the problem.

Can’t, by the time I figured out that she had been the problem all along, it was years later. I can’t remember her last name or the location of her practice. Disassociating also screws with my memory, which wasn’t good to begin with. I wish I could though.

Yes! Very similar language was used with me. Was your therapist’s name Karen? Ha!

I certainly hope you’re right. I’ve seen too many cases where courts didn’t find any reasonable cause that turned into tragedy. Most of them were in the US or the UK, but I’m wary of the general overworked nature of family courts and services designed to protect children.

Yeah, I’ve definitely run into the guys who don’t like women who stand up for themselves. Thankfully, I’ve only ever dated guys that were friends first, so I weeded out the bad ones early.

I think some people (and by this I don’t mean you) are too broken to love or be loved in that way in their current state. People who have certain types of severe untreated mental illness. Psychopaths do not have a someone.

Trust me, if you look hard enough (ie don’t give up because it’s taking a long time), there is someone(s) for everyone.

Right, I’m cute-ish in the face. But I have saggy smallish breasts, narrow hips, a kind of muscly fat fireplug type body really, scarred skin and I blush spectacularly and often. Depending on who you ask, I’m hideous or I’m cute.

I can see now why you are sensitive about the subject. I’m sorry you had to go through that.

Right after I finally broke free of my father (who was sexually, physically, and emotionally abusing me) and was seeing a therapist courtesy of Victim Witness, she started telling me I was a sociopath.

There is someone out there for everyone. Ugly or frumpy or fat or whatever. I am both frumpy and fat and I have never had any problem attracting a man.

The capslock made me think you were angry, it reads as shouting.

My instict is that he’s an MRA type, not by that name of course. Have to stick it to the bitches since other judges always side with the crazy womenfolk. *eyeroll*

Why are you so angry about this? You seem to be defending this man for no rational reason. I’ve starred many of your comments in the past because you seemed to be a reasonable and thoughtful person, so this seems out of character for you.

Right, but how is that a consequence if the other judge increased the visitation in the first place, after he committed short term kidnapping? He got rewarded for doing something illegal, but it’s not an actual consequence to just have it go back to normal. He should at minimum be ordered to get some therapy, and what…

How do we know that the crazy judge hadn’t increased his visitation while imposing that ridiculous breastfeeding ban? Because that seems to be what is stated in the article.