I'm pretty sure that clever heard of this guy and filed a restraining order.

Yes, they would. People are terrible when it comes to women.

Fucking this.

When I was a little girl in the early eighties, 50s and 60s music had a huge resurgence. It's My Party was my group of friends' favorite song. We drove our parents crazy singing that song over and over. My feeling of loss is nothing compared to what her loved ones are feeling, but I'm pretty broken up about this. It's…

What I don't understand about myself is that even though I get so frustrated reading this type of thing, sometimes even feeling a little despair at the state of our species, and yet I keep coming back for more. It's the same with news and politics, so much of it makes me miserable, but I compulsively check for more…

Is there any chance you could share some stories of her adventures in server torture? I don't know why I love these kinds of things, but I can't get enough.

Agreed. I feel bad for people if they get something wrong, because I've been there, but only if they don't act like jerks. Innocent ignorance is fine, angry stupidity is not.

I know it's hard, and it will take time for you to develop confidence and lessen your anxiety about the issue. I do want you to know that no matter what, there is someone (probably many someones) out there who you are the ultimate fantasy for.

You can't help what you feel, only what you do. Being upfront with people is the most important thing. If I'm going to get involved with a woman, I let her know I'm bisexual, married, and only interested in sexual contact (if that's what I want at the time, I have had girlfriends as well, also okay with my husband and…

Well, it seems we both have traveled a very similar road and landed in very similar places.

Okay, I know I'm seriously late to the party, but this is right up my emotional/sexual alley.

Me too. On both fronts. It's almost like what is considered sexy in real life is nothing like what the beauty/fashion industry wants us to think it is.

I can't get enough Ronon. Just saying.

Make that a t-shirt, and you've got me. All of it in various shades of black, except the socks. The socks are as loud as I can find them.

Me too. I'm not terribly surprised. I was goth as fuck in the 90s/00s. I'm tired now. Also, my son pulled out all my facial piercings as a toddler.

My heart hurts too. Some of us are just wired differently, we're more sensitive and it's easy for us to empathize with others. Other people can't make those connections, or it's difficult for them to do so if they don't directly know the other person.

It's actually always been this way, and it's been even worse. The change is that more of us know about it now, and think it's a problem.

Are you actually me? It's a little spooky how much I identify with that.

Aww, thanks. I'll keep on being my odd self then.

Ah. I don't have any idea how to make that happen, but I don't actually care that much. I like stars because they feel nice, but I'm deeply lazy and that feels nicer.