And do not give up on your friend if she isn’t ready to leave. Please please please don’t do this. I lost so many friends due to my ex’s behavior, and the isolation that resulted kept me in a terrible, unsafe situation for much longer than I should have been in it. The friends and family I had that stuck by me even…
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Resilience is the key to surviving abuse. How does one create resilience?
yaaaas. the TopSecretGayAgenda is working!
What kind of mushy response is this shit?
Wut? Well that’s a twist I didn’t see coming. Good for her/them. I hope they’re both happy and it works out with the kids and all that stuff.
YES. Mine is a Twitter troll come to life, constantly bringing politics into unrelated subjects and trying to start fights. Completely apropos or nothing during dinner on Christmas Eve last years, he asks me “Do YOU think there’s a war on you because you’re a woman?” I try not to engage because it’s really not worth…
Yeah, I’m totally in a four-year mode of revenge after this. No one who I know supported Trump is getting any of my business, and they are not going to get the opportunity to pretend to be my friend while talking shit about me behind my back.
I documented it & I’ll talk to my supervisor on Monday. As a former supervisor at my workplace, I know well how impotent our HR department is. It’s only a hostile work environment if I can establish a pattern of behavior by a person or persons that either actively or passively humiliates/intimidates/threatens/bullies…
“If this country is so bad, then get the fuck out.”
Why did it take a white woman on the ticket in order for so many white Democrats to register a fact that has been true for 50 years? I’m fucking serious. Instead of fussing over all those other white people who voted for Trump, maybe this is a good moment for self-reflection. If it surprises you that a majority of…
This morning I heard a co-worker (whom I respected!) say, “If this country is so bad, then get the fuck out.” As an immigrant and a WOC I was infuriated. I had to get up and leave my office. I am conscientiously apolitical in my office and have encouraged others to do the same. I just. I just cannot. This is funny,…
My advice, from someone who has bought a house: Do not buy a house until you can comfortably buy a house. Have a good down payment. Have a well stocked savings account. Then, and only then, should you buy that house. Otherwise, you’re only signing up for constant worry.
Mortgage professional here! First, contact the student loan people and consolidate as many student loans as possible for the lowest payment. Also tell them you’re looking to qualify for a mortgage so they understand what you’re aiming for (lowest possible payments). Regarding a second job: if you’re just looking to…
I love working second jobs and side gigs. I call it “diversifying my economy.” It also usually involves diversifying my skills. And, it was great before I had kiddo because I could just earn extra income and save it, which set us up nicely.
It is. A few of my favourites have been tainted this year and I’ve been busy reclaiming them of late :)
Firstly : FUCK YEAH to your brag
Welcome back! Yes, we have missed you and have tried to keep up the brag thread. Congrats on all your brags. 😚
I am opening a pole studio! Work began last week tearing out the ceiling.
I’m not sure if this is a brag, but I finally found the mate of a shoe I had been looking for. It was far underneath the bed. When I reached for it, I got stuck. Since I was stuck and alone, I just decided to just stay there and take a nap. Oddly, it was a relaxing and needed nap. Eventually I found the strength…