Lol! I was just messing with you, I am guilty of this one all the time.

*women, not woman. Twice you did this, lol. Seriously though, I get what you're saying. I think we should do away with the term feminism and call it what another commenter suggested the "gender equality movement".

I love him so much I started a Facebook Page about having his baby. True Story

I love me some Lindy. This was great! Though I always thought men supposedly liked wide hips with a narrow waist.

I agree, though we don't know how long she worked there. She couldn't have been too new, see as the author recognized her, but if she was there less than a year then she isn't losing much IMO. She might have been a student (bookbag and such) and who knows, maybe she already has something lined up and was just giving…

I hate it too. And I hate that people assume that because I'm female I will allow more physical touching than a man might ie: a lingering hug or touching my arm etc. I know it's just my issue but still.

Both were caused by the unfair idea that one sex is better at parenting. In societies where men are the default the reasoning is that women are basically property/cannot be moral on their own/etc. In societies where the opposite is true the idea is that the only thing a woman is good for is child care. The traits that…

I get so annoyed at the commercials and shows that paint all men as hopeless buffoons, especially since I was raised by my dad and he did a spectacular job with myself and my sister.

I call shenanigans. The reason the divorce rate went up in the 60s and 70s was due to feminism, but women were still considered to be the automatic caretaker because ya know, vagina. I agree that in other cultures the default to the father was due to the patriarchy there, but don't you think both can be true,…

If there wasn't a bias against men when it came to parenting there wouldn't be an issue here but on the other side of that is the idea that only women can be nurturing and therefore they should stay at home and raise the children while the man brings home the bacon. We, as a society, have to start recognizing that not…

I call shenanigans on the unmarried mothers part here. Plenty of unmarried couples have custody disputes. I think you're assuming that all unmarried women are loose hoes who have multiple children with different dead beat men. As a woman who doesn't believe in marriage for the many reasons everyone on this thread is…

Courts absolutely do look at those factors mentioned. I went through this as a kid and my FATHER gained custody of me. In the 80s too. And my mother wasn't a drug addict or an abuser. He was just the better person for the job at the time. I'm not saying that there isn't a bias, but the bias is caused by society's…

My dad raised me too, and this was the 80s. There is obviously a bias against men, especially in certain states, but in cases were the father is clearly the better parent (the mom is on drugs, a criminal, etc) the father usually still wins.

Of course, lol. Hotties need love too! It's only when it's the only thing you care about that it's a problem. You can appreciate your partner's hot body all you want but if that's all you see in them then what happens when they get older, or gain weight, or get into an accident that leaves them handicapped and…

I have this happen to me too. I am supposedly conventionally attractive, and my husband is handsome in my eyes but supposedly dorky and I get the Biffs of the world coming on to me all the time. It was the worst when I worked as a bartender because the douche bags would hit on me constantly. Even my man's friends have…

He sounds more like a stalker than a NG. The brunch thing would have creeped me out. Maybe she should consider contacting HR. Casually "bumping into"her on her personal time seems to cross the line.

My husband is a genuinely nice guy (not a NG) and you know why we're together? HE manned up and asked me out right away instead of beating around the bush (heh heh) and pretending to want to be just friends until he thought I would bang him.

Did you try explaining to her why you were pulling back from your friendship? I think she would have respected you saying "I want to respect your decision about me so I am going to pull away for a while because I can't just turn off my feelings for you". I know I would have.

I was thinking of the douche Jersey Shore types here in NYC who insist on doing it and refuse to handshake. Why would that be racist? Are you making an assumption on who fist bumps? It's almost always douche alpha make types (in recent years) who are trying to look street who do this. Also, not that it should matter…