I have one that's a good deal bigger than the other. It's really annoying. I think the bigger one is a little larger than DDD and the smaller one is maybe D. I like these specific plunge bras and the large one always pops out a little and creates a nice-looking bulge. I try to even go bigger but the bulge keeps…

I often try to get tall fit shirts because normal ones end up being too short. Bras are also so uncomfortable. Underwires poke everywhere and break through the seams which then poke you very painfully. Plus the fabric is just constructed poorly for large breasts. They create a lot of stress on fabric and bras end up…

I'm so sorry. I hope you will be able to find peace.

This article seems sort of insensitive. The quote at the end is bad, too. "People actually do that." Like they're monsters. I guess a psychology professor isn't necessarily a psychologist, or she'd know saying things like that is harmful.

Unrelated: Rowsdower! Hahaha! I love it.

Or use a "car bra".

Then there's always the one or two awesome guys who directly tell you you're ugly or fat because they feel bad about themselves. And of course I'll take that directly to heart. Some guy went on a "You're fat" rant almost 4 years ago and I still think about it. It's probably a big reason why I have such timid behavior…

I love it. Thank you! I have an ex who's a narcissist and I went through all of that. I even was the one who he cheated to be with. What a fucking mess. He moved on to another girl and I always thought he was the happiest person on earth with her. But years later I sort of noticed through Facebook that they weren't…

I don't even look at "hot" guys on dating sites because I simply feel that I only deserve someone who has the same type of look as me. I have such a terrible self-image, though, that I think I'm the grossest human on earth, and thus I need to find the second grossest human on earth.

I think working with kids might be better in some ways. In my experience, I have a completed childhood and some adulthood filled with negative body image reinforcement from my mom. It's nearly impossible for me to do healthy weight loss and feel good about it. With kids, you can get in there and give them some…

This is the ugliest attempt at graphic "design" that I've ever seen.

I want to marry Stephen Merchant. I don't think he'll ever notice me, though.

One flight from Minneapolis to Reykjavik. (And one back)

Last year I went to Iceland with three friends. One of us flew from a different state, and the rest of us flew from Minneapolis. The flights were supposed to arrive there just a few minutes apart. Well, something went wrong with our plane and it got delayed.

For some reason, this story has put me over the edge of complacency (wow, that's poetic). I'm a female computer programmer, and luckily haven't experienced that much sexism (beyond wage gaps that I'm sure are there). But I want to become an active feminist now. I want to be a pioneer somehow in my field, and do…

I just read a few of the comments on Kotaku. It's all about their precious opinions about games and how their poor feelings are hurt. Nothing about, say, how it's deplorable to threaten to murder someone.

It reminds me of that dude who used a thinspiration tag a few months ago, and when someone called him out rather mildly, called her a C word. It's like 0 to 60 in a millisecond.

I could NOT believe she told the woman to contact the girl's doctor! I about had to go to my own doctor after that since I had a heart attack. The nerve and the delusions of superiority!

One time my boss was IMing me and wrote "Clit Eastwood" and then quickly wrote "I mean Clint!". Hahaha...I did NOT say anything about it.

Good point. I wasn't allowed to watch MTV or The Simpsons. I watched VH1, and apparently that was OK.