"could the argument be made to focus on that stuff rather than use pop culture news as a feminist sounding board"

" And few men have made what Julia Roberts or Sandra Bullock or Meryl Streep make."

The husband is basically my first really serious relationship, so I'm going with neither of your options. It's partly luck to find the right person, but the other part is knowing what you want from the beginning so that you don't even waste time with the bullshit ones.

Wow. That sounds terrible.

I was my husband's rebound after his divorce. lol Almost 3 years married now!

Yuuup.

Yes there is.

Why is this happening? Why is any of this happening?

Chelsea Handler is unlikeable, but you wouldn't even believe how much more so Tomi Lahren is.

Nothing? What should happen?

Ese. Homes.

Grandsons of Anarchy.

Instead just mumble/text to those people "Hey, this guy is a fuckin' racist," and you don't have to worry about this question.

I don't know what to say to this. I'm used to arguments carrying on well into the night. I have all this angry energy now and nowhere to put it.

It wasn't a dig. It's just how it sounded to me and how it sounds when I hear it from other people. Perhaps you didn't mean it that way. I apologize for my hostility, but it really does annoy me when white men pull out the "I don't know whether to hold the door!" or something equally silly as if that's, like, a…

I'm thinking something more like the kinds of things they ate in American Psycho. Molecular gastronomy type stuff.

I know you don't, and yet. But sincere good luck finding a job.

Yes, don't do that either.

We call that privilege. Enjoy it!

Just hold the door if that's what you feel like doing (it's the polite thing to do anyway). And also I'm not really trying to hear someone spending a lot of time hand-wringing about this sort of thing and then equating it to actual acts of discrimination that happen every day. This is so common. A guy convicted of…