because then you can’t decide it was assault and get even later on if the mood strikes you.

folks here don’t wanna hear that, though. they’re invested in infantilizing women to the point that they’re responsible for literally none of their actions.

is invalidating another woman’s sexual preference very feminist of you?

wow, someone who actually understands how human sexuality works. they’re a rarity these days!

the whole pearl-clutching situation right now depends on believing women aren’t sexual beings with sexual agency. they’re just innocent like maidens.

you’re recognitions, we know you hate straight people, white people, and male people because of how they’re born. you don’t need to clarify anymore.

how many acres of strawmen do you have by now? it must be in the thousands.

no one says ‘yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes’ through a whole sexual experience like a robot. please stop being so naive.

regret is abuse now. somehow this is ‘progress’.

-deciding something is now magically a crime a year and a half later.
-agreeing to something and then deciding it was uncomfortable, but still not taking responsibility for it yourself as a participant, just blaming the other party for not being a mind-reader.

cool.

if it’s the standard ‘everyone’ should live by, than why is it so wrong to expect a woman to verbally say ‘no’ if she’s uncomfortable, exactly?

dude, recognitions believes it’s on men to mind-read and that women shouldn’t have to lower themselves to speak. you won’t get anywhere.

^THIS

you need to realize...there has to always be a way to make a man an Abuser. in any scenario now.

kinda hard to be a retroactive victim if you do, i guess.

the next time i consent to something, and then get upset that the something happened, i guess i can comfort myself that i am in no way responsible for the situation at all. cool.

lol, no absurd stereotypes here.

so if a man and a woman have consensual sex, and the woman decides later that she regrets it, she can say ‘i’m a victim of sexual assault, because my conditioning made me consent’?

like seriously, how is that the man’s fault in that situation? regret is not assault.

exactly. i love this idea of ‘i gave in’ and then ‘i’m a victim’. with no personal responsibility taken for the situation. it’s strange.

but if you do that, you can’t play the ‘victim’ card later to cry assault and get even. see, you gotta be vague enough to always leave open the interpretation that it was assault.

see, now you’re suggesting women take some responsibility for their role in situations. you can’t do that, it’s 2018!