Is this where I reaffirm my love for couch co-op?

Even if your partner can come from penetrative sex, going forever, especially every time, can get exhausting, boring, or both. A marathon every time isn’t what everyone wants—or has time for.

Beer does it for me, even if I drink two, there isn’t a chance in hell I’m getting off.

You’re a sad pathetic person if you come here to laugh.

Is that first guy on any medications? Some may cause sexual disfunction, for example the antidepressant Zoloft.

You really have no clue what asexual means do you sport?

Advice from me, for the woman in letter 2:

To Taken and Confused,

“This is true regardless whether we’re talking about physical habits or something as ephemeral as your outlook on life. The more you do something, the more you reinforce it in your brain and the more it becomes part of you - something that you can use for good or for ill.”

Something else to keep in mind is that common anti-depressants can make it impossible to have an orgasm, and that even after you stop taking them it can be impossible to orgasm for months, years or forever. Chances our, your doctor won’t tell you about it either, but watch out for those SSRI’s. I took one for just two…

Boundaries are handy, especially for the people trying to cross them on both sides of a friendship. If Taken and Confused finds herself having to take the nuclear option, I hope she understands she’s doing the right thing by her ex, as much as herself and her current SO. Some of us humans learn from battering our…

Sometimes you’ve got to embrace being a boss bitch and put a motherfucker in his place. And if your ex is continually pushing against your boundaries, then his place is on the Nope Train to Fuck This Shitville.

I may not have much to say regarding these situations, but if I have to say anything about these posts...

For what it’s worth, I do get a good kick out of these woes. Makes me feel better about my own life.

I take a shot for every “WHY IS THIS ON KOTAKU??” comment I see. So bring ‘em all on!

Is that a common thing, or specifically because both of the writers this week happen to be gay?

For what it’s worth, I’m really glad it’s here. I love this series and it’s a healthy place for it in a world where the audience might not be targeting (or responsive to) other places that more frequently talk about stuff like “Ask Dr. Nerdlove.” It’s like getting one of those delicious chocolate-mints with your bill…

Not gay at all but that first letter hits home with me.