I think it’s more that the advice given was perfect and people can offer their own anecdotal perspectives on the second one.

My god, Dr, you really fucking nailed the answer to the second letter. Not only is it informative, helpful, and nonjudgmental, but it’s also comforting and challenging to traditional sex roles. The orgasm is not the be all end all point of sex for pleasure.

O’Malley pretty much nailed it with his response to the first letter, break it to her that it’s not going to happen and quit the sexting. The second letter has a lot more that can be discussed.

I salute you.

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Wow, I knew old school D&D was harsh, but I didn’t realize it was that mean; I’m used to fuzzy, player-friendly 4E.

I’m glad you didn’t suggest that horny guy broach the topic of non-monogamy to his wife. He may love her and mean it 100% but nothing is more terrifying than getting knocked up and then suddenly your partner wants to go elsewhere for sex. Even the chillest and most understanding person would VERY easily get upset(and…

Most of my knowledge of “Tomb of Horrors” comes from Ready Player One rather than having played it myself. I assume in the original module, you also complete the dungeon by beating the Lich in Joust, right?

Get your porn off the internet like a normal person, dammit. Leave the rest of us out of it.

“Or that she’d realised her arbitrary rules about numbers of sexual partners are stupid?”

Oversharing time: I was a virgin until age 24. Basically I was addicted to drugs and that was all I had time for in my life. Got clean, met a woman, and our 4th date rolls around....things started getting intense that evening and I could see where it was going and I just blurted out “I’ve never had sex before!” At…

Nah, I’m with SonofSisyphus. You’re making a lot of generalisations and shaming of people who are already vulnerable and insecure. One virgin dude was a douche, let’s not tar everyone.

Well played Doc, well played.

It is the most brilliant phrase I’ve heard in a long time. I’m gonna have to try and work it into conversation this weekend.

You are a fundamentally horrible person.

show-pony? Neigghhhhhhh

sudden bumper crop of boners

See i feel like an affair doesn’t have to involve emotion at all, its just cheating is the catchall term while affair means specifically cheating with one person over a period of time