“sudden bumper crop of boners” mighty be the best thing I have read all day.

Some people think that the money that you spend is proportional to the motivation that you have to date that person.

Doesn’t confident make people attractive? I think people that are confident have some kind of aura or charisma around them that make them seem so much more attractive that they really are...

Definitely keep an eye on his website, if you don’t already ;)

Why is this comment even necessary?

Pfft. Right? Nonsense. My wife is > 20 years my senior, and it’s not a problem.

Oh, I didn’t think you were judgy at all. I was just pointing out that successful relationships (thus far) can have even wider age gaps. :) As someone else pointed out, it's all about mental maturity. Maybe I'm a little immature for my age. I know he's certainly the more responsible of the two of us, lol.

Relationships don’t actually take that much money unless you’re just going on really expensive dates.

Exactly, it have nothing to do with the “age”.

And even then, I’m not judging! It’s really not that bad, if you are both comfortable who are we to judge you?

You get jealous? This is new to me! I love this!

Getting over self esteem issues is easier said than done.

We get jealous, too. It’s about managing and processing your emotions. The biggest positive of poly relationships (outside of the freedom) is the improved communication. You’re just forced to talk more and more openly if you’re gonna make it work.

Polygamy =/= polyamory.

You don’t need to have a gym body or be in perfect shape to get a boyfriend/girlfriend, you just need to be interesting. Get over the low self esteem issues and just get out there. Talk to people and make sure that you have something interesting to talk about. It doesn’t even need to be book knowledge, just talk about…

That feel when you don’t have the money to afford a relationship.

4 years is nothing =___= Really nothing.

I think it’s because it is often (but not always) directed to the problems that face “nerdy” or “gamers” people. Like if I should take my long distance WoW relationship to the next level? Does my FFXIV girlfriend really exist? Do I come across as a creepy dude if I ask out the girl at the game store? What is a vagina…

Advice for AQ was excellent. Take heed all ye who have been rejected/dumped, it’s not the end of the world!