I realize you mean well, but don't pathologize someone who's asexual. It's like telling a gay person that they'd be straight if they'd get checked out by their doctor or met the right partner .

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This is one of those times when I'd recommend disclosing earlier rather than later. While I don't want to minimize your experience, the vast majority of people going out on dates are expecting that sex will be part of the relationship (when, exactly, may vary). Letting people know sooner rather than later means that…

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Here's an idea: don't sexually assault your girlfriend.

An open relationship requires a strong foundation of mutual love, trust and frequent and open communication - which they very clearly don't have.

You need to be talking with your SO about this. Not demanding to know why they won't get on your junk but more about what's going on, how do they feel about sex, what their needs are, what your needs are, different forms of intimacy etc.

There's a difference between the situation you're describing and one where the…

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The problem is that finding someone to have an intimate relationship with but without much of a physical connection (not just sex but casual contact like hand-holding or cuddling on the couch during a Netflix marathon) is going to be incredibly difficult. Even in a companionate relationship/marriage, there's usually so…

If it helps, my wife has a matching Star Sapphire ring.

Nah, what's needed here is willpower.

Plus, I wear a custom made Green Lantern ring.

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Actually, I've dated many women who were friends with their exes. I'm currently friends with many of my exes. The fact that we didn't work out as a couple doesn't mean that the shared interests and friendship that underlaid the relationship magically ceased to exist. You may well need time apart to let the pain of the…

Would you be happier if he wanted to fuck her but DIDN'T say so? Because at least when everyone's cards are on the table, it's a lot easier to establish the terms of the relationship.

If you're going to forever be worried about other people wanting to bang your partner, you're never going to feel secure. Odds are,…

That's an entirely different beast from "She's going to cheat on you, b/c dude likes her."

Ignoring his other issues: this is a very new relationship and one of the people he's threatened by is her best friend. It makes sense that she's going to prioritize her best friend over him, especially if he tries to make her…

They've been dating for three months. The other guy is her best friend.

Choosing your best friend, especially if your new-ish partner is saying "It's them or me" is the right choice.

Exactly. The fact that she's friends with people who are attracted to her doesn't make sex an inevitability.

Exactly. The fact that she's friends with people who are attracted to her doesn't make sex an inevitability.

Attraction isn't a magnet and a boner isn't a promise. It takes two to tango; if he's attracted and she isn't, then nothing is going to happen.

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