Hold up, is this the Flowers For Mans guy? I think he spammed my Twitter mentions when I was talking with a couple gaming journalist friends.

It sounds like you know what the problem is: you're giving off "not interested" vibes with the people you're dating. People are looking for chemistry with the person they're on a date with; if it's not there, they're more likely to move on to the next person. Some people are more generous and will give it two or more…

Thanks to everyone who came by and asked questions. This was a blast!

There's absolutely nothing wrong with that. You do you, man.

Get involved in things outside the house. I've mentioned a few ways you can meet compatible people by engaging with your hobbies in ways that mean you participate in the community, even if it's joining a book club or a beach-volleyball team.

Widening your social circle means you have more chances to meet people via…

It's really hard to say.

It may be they feel awkward about having guy friends while they're in a relationship for fear of the appearance of impropriety. It could be that they only have so much time and - to be blunt - you were a lower priority than other friends. It could be their significant others are uncomfortable…

Actually, I recommend OKCupid all the time. I'm not as fond of pay sites like Match and ones like eHarmony have a host of issues, but I've found OKC to be a valuable resource.

Haven't been on Tindr or a lot of dating apps, so I don't have too much of an opinion on those.

I wouldn't ask her out within a week of her break-up - that just feels predatory - but people recover from their break-ups at their own pace. The "rebound" is just the name we give to relationships that didn't work out after the last major one.

It may not be a bad idea to just lay things out without pressuring her to…

Honestly, a quick email giving her a head's up is a good idea. If you two had a clean break without any hard feelings, then there's no reason why you couldn't just send a note saying "I just wanted you to know, I've been assigned to your lecture. Didn't want you to be surprised or make things awkward."

It's a simple…

One of the best things you can do is be his fan and help him see himself how you see him. You don't want to sugar-coat things or lie to him, but being willing to tell him the things you appreciate about him and helping him see his own good points can be powerful.

You might also want to ask if there's anything practical…

Have your circumstances changed, or are they pretty much still the same as they were before? It can be tempting to get back together with your ex - they're familiar, after all and slipping into the old patterns can be as comfortable as a well-broken in pair of jeans - but if the circumstances that broke you up are the…

Actions speak louder than words. It sounds like he's not really interested in anything serious with you right now, to be perfectly honest. The last thing you want to do is push for a serious relationship with someone who isn't interested in one - it's just a recipe to make you both miserable.

If you're moving to the…

Like I just suggested earlier: find ways of getting involved in your interests and hobbies that will bring you in contact with people. I also have a couple articles on where to meet awesome women that aren't bars and clubs:

http://www.doctornerdlove.com/2011/07/places…
http://www.doctornerdlove.com/2012/08/more-p…

Online…

First of all: a month isn't that long in terms of a break-up. It's ok to be sad about a relationship ending and to feel the fuck out of your feels, as long as it isn't making it impossible for you to go about your life.

The best thing for healing a broken heart is to get busy. Find things that you can occupy yourself…

First of all: don't be afraid to take a break and let yourself recover. You don't do yourself any favors by draining your energy and self-esteem.

If you're continually experiencing rejection, the best thing I would suggest that you could do is to start journaling. Sometimes you're just too close to the subject to see…

The longer your list of must-haves, the smaller your dating pool tends to be. If you're continually finding that you can't find very few (or any) people who meet your standards, then you may want to reconsider how many of your must-haves are, in fact, "would-be-nice" and what you can be flexible on.

One thing to keep…

The best way to meet people with similar interests is to find ways of indulging your interests in ways that bring you in contact with others. Sometimes it's obvious: you can find MeetUps for people with specific interests or volunteering opporunities. Other times you may have to get a little creative - joining groups…

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Well, if I can plug my blog, I've written a *lot* about starting from scratch, and I have a book coming out soon that's a starting-from-the-beginning guide to dating.

But the best advice I can give you is to not psych yourself out when it comes to talking to women. It can seem scary, but at the end of the day, it's…

Well the most reliable sign is that she doesn't want to go on a date with you, or drives home that this a "friend" thing when you do go out - especially if nobody's said "this is a date".

Honestly, the best way to ask someone on a date is simply just say "hey, I'd like to take you out to $ACTIVITY." I'm a big advocate…