Nudity is not a big deal to me or the majority of people that I know. You tried to say that some nudity is sort of OK while other nudity isn't and I pointed out that that was illogical. And again, who cares what is "normal" when it is based on regressive sexist standards? You keep talking about what should be versus…

My mom had a ton of short dresses like that from that era- showing your legs was the super sexy thing to do! Everything cool was mini and most of the time your chest was covered up.

It is incredible when he's on a reality show with the premise that it is normal for him to date a harem of women and then go into a fantasy/sex suite with a few of them.

It is a stupid that we randomly pick body parts that are OK to show and others that are not OK to show. Belly buttons used to be considered scandalous! So did ankles! Why is it OK for men to be topless and not women? Why is it OK to wear teeny bikinis that barely cover the "shocking" parts but not OK to just be naked?…

No, I've seen the pics. It's still just nudity. I don't see why what part of her nude body you see should matter? I assume we all know she has labia and a clit, correct? Why would her breasts be less scandalous? Or her butt? If she had posed nude for a fashion magazine and not Playboy, would that change anything?…

It's incredible that Chris was so uncomfortable looking at Jade's photos when in a date or two they would go into the fantasy suite. Don't you want to see her naked? Also, it's just nudity- not really a big deal. But I'm glad Jade won't end up in Arlington- she, Kaitlyn, and Whitney are far too interesting to end up…

Totally. One of my really good friends and I preface conversations where we are looking for validation with "I just need to rant." So that the other person knows we aren't looking for solutions put validation for our feelings.

I agree with that. I'm just saying I don't find it hurtful if my husband says, "Penelope Cruz is gorgeous!" because she is a total stranger to him. Also, sometimes someone you do know shines particularly brightly one night and it's OK for that person to be found beautiful. I'm secure enough not to need to be the most…

Also, why does your spouse have to be the most beautiful? Can't someone else be thought of as technically more attractive physically? I'm OK with my husband thinking Penelope Cruz is more beautiful than me. It's doesn't have squat to do with him loving me and finding me sexually and emotionally attractive.…

And putting all lies on the same level seriously negates the damage that dishonesty can cause in a relationship. Lying about your financial situation to your spouse is not the same thing as hiding a birthday present you bought her. One is a huge transgression- the other is no big deal.

I agree with you up to a point. I think what you are getting at is that people should realize that they shouldn't ask questions they don't actually want the answers to. I've asked my husband if I looked fat in a dress and I told him I actually wanted to know because I had gained a few pounds and wasn't sure if the…

Well, if the lie is told so that you can happily surprise your S.O. I'm going to wager you don't feel guilty about the lie so it's a lot easier to hide. Whereas, an affair would likely cause a lot of guilt and worse lying. Now if you don't feel guilty about cheating and are always comfortable with lying I would wager…

Lying takes so much energy! Also, why lie about a lot of little stuff- who fucking cares?!

I think the author misses the point; it's not really about lying. It's about knowing the difference between when your partner is asking for honesty and when s/he is asking for validation. A wife asking if she looks fat is not looking for the truth or a white lie- she wants to know her husband is still attracted to…

It just shows how fucking dumb and angry they are. If you don't like someone, just spend less time around her and ignore her as much as possible. Being a violent immature asshole does not make you "real" or "better" than someone else.

I thought she said that to the other blond girl. She seems to hate Madison.

It came off as though they were both saying what they thought would smooth things over rather than actually being remorseful.

When Sylvia basically asserts, "I didn't know that my friend attacked you first so it's not my fault that I pulled you to the ground by your hair and put you in a chokehold" I couldn't help but think she's going to end up in jail at some point if she thinks that absolves her of responsibility. Also, she's a grade A…

I haven't watched a Real World episode in years, but what seems the same is that there are several people who can't handle their liquor and have major anger management issues. And once again, the girls seem to be fighting each other over a lame dude rather than just turning on the asshole. Watching people who get…

Totally. Ashley's biggest issue is maturity. She needs some life experience and time to grow up. But she's a Jersey girl- she can spot a manipulative bitch from a mile away. Kelsey was just so fucking creepy throughout.