And even if she isn't angry in general (Hah! what B.S.) you'd think she could at least acknowledge that she was angry in those moments. Farrah's mom is a total gaslighting asshole.

Yeah, my life is better, too. But it is so hard to cut a parent out of one's life. Our society does not look favorably on children who cut off contact with their parents. There is so much guilt heaped on us. And it is incredible because if the toxic person was a spouse or friend everyone would support you but because…

As someone who has cut off contact with a parent, I think the time to do it is when the parent refuses to acknowledge that there is a problem or that they had a hand in creating the problem. I don't like Farrah and believe she is ultimately responsible for the consequences of her actions. But fuck is her mother…

I believe his secret is "no bullshit". It would really upset all the pick up artists.

I totally agree. The hard asses (not jerks, just no bullshit) always got me to work harder and produce better work. Especially when people are young, strong guidelines can really help them to keep their bad habits and traits in check. Anyway, I may have liked the softies more but the hard asses always had my respect…

No, I think they just took the time to look for pieces they really liked and that were not pressed particle board.

Yeah, I think that one of Ikea's strengths is also it's weakness: it makes it super easy to not think and just buy stuff that goes together easily and is inexpensive. But to achieve Kloss' design aesthetic you really have to carefully think about each piece and how it fits into the space and the rest of the furniture.…

I think Ikea is great for some stuff. I have a chair from there that tons of people have asked me where I got it because it's comfy and stylish. But when you are 22 and just need furniture and are buying the basics from Ikea it tends to be obvious that you bought everything on the cheap. As I've had more money to…

Yes, this place looks comfortable and cheery. Just because it looks expensive doesn't mean it looks "too old" for Kloss.

Maybe you are missing the fact that she has a ton of money and can afford high-end furniture and isn't buying Ikea? As soon as anyone I knew could afford nice furniture their places started looking more mature and less like stuff they got for free from family and friends with wildly different tastes.

Most cities have a department dedicated to tenants' rights. Find out what yours is and go talk to them about what you can and can't do (they will usually set up free appointments to talk to a housing advocate/lawyer). They will explain if and how to make a complaint. You'll get a better handle on what your rights are…

I have a bunch of their u-tank women's tank tops. I love them and they've lasted 7 years and I'm still wearing them. I also have some t-shirts that have held up well, too. A lot of their other clothes don't work for me, especially their pants which don't seem to be made for anyone with hips.

Yes. Someone can have mental health issues and still be an asshole. She really seems like she has borderline personality disorder.

So much of their clothing looks so cheap in person (and it is- the quality just sucks). I mostly shop sales so I like things to be cheap in cost but NOT appearance.

Grunge was awesome. Comfy inexpensive clothing.

This is my problem. The quality seems to go down each year. I have Anthro clothing from 10 years ago that is much high quality than the stuff today. It's a shame. But I think clothing quality in general has really declined- even at more expensive stores.

I think because on young women it can look trashy (not always) because often the rest of the outfit isn't high quality. I think leopard looks best in high quality fabrics next to other high quality fabrics. Also, it has a sexual element to it so it can seem too mature for younger people. This is my speculation on her…

Especially with the 90s revival going on with young people. Thrifting was very popular in the mid-90s when I was a teen and it has come back! I used to steel all my mom's old clothes from the 60s and I STILL get compliments on those items when I wear them. Vintage clothing is appealing partly because you have unique…

My grandmother rocked mini-dresses well into her 60s and she looks chic in all the old family photos. She always loved checking out what I was wearing, especially my shoes, when she was still alive. She did say that she thought leopard print looked best on sophisticated (code for older) women. I plan to rock what I…

Rents in New York are quite high and a lot of young people spend the majority of their earnings on rent each month. That housing cost and the minimum wage job are pretty common. It's why she can't live by herself because she has to have someone split the $2100 with her. So if she's paying $1050 herself that is less…