“I don’t why you and other women have such a hard time finding great dates with good-hearted, thoughtful men who are happy to learn how to please you in bed.”

That’s why I prefer drummers. At least they know how to find a rhythm and keep it there. ;>)

I’ve had that happen more often than not.

I’ll never be un-grayed, but your post reminded me of a story.

I think his message here is, if you don’t word things just right, he will bug out and ghost you. Super sensitive I guess.

Did you give those women feedback? Pointers? Tips?

The idea that the person on the bottom is just a tourist and only has to lie there makes me angry as fuck.

Speaking of which, I’ve been putting A-1 on burgers and I’ll never go back to ketchup on a burger again. Ever.

“There’s a certain segment of feminists who are like “pole dancing classes are so empowering” and “bikini waxes are so empowering blah blah blah.” No, it’s not. You’re trying to make yourself available.”

That was a really great story, but I’m sorry to tell you, Chicago is not a state capital. The capital of Illinois is Springfield.

Do you think the work he does is 200 times more valuable than the work done by, say, a newly hired secretary?

You should be still living with your parents until such time as when a man finally acquiesces to take care of your uppity self. For which you shall reward him with many babies.

Third theory: This guy is the product of mormon brainwashing. So to answer your questions, yes, this guy is completely unaware of all the things you listed. As well as single women who do not have kids or a husband but we gotta eat.

I’m having trouble with understanding exactly what I’m supposed to as well. I’m single, live alone, no kids. I’m not taking care of anyone but myself so am I supposed to not? Just tell myself to fuck off and see if maybe the dog will cook dinner?

Nailed it.

I went back to the source story and it’s not in there. In fact, I don’t even think the toast took place at all; the words I read were he was “about” to make the toast when the dad objected.

*you’re

Data point: I am a 47 year old woman who is chronically single. I struggle with depression and have my entire life. I am here to assure you that men do not just scoop up insecure, self-loathing women. Insecurity and self-loathing is man-repellant. (It’s woman repellant as well.)

Now, see, this was the only part of the series I really liked because it’s very rare in YA fiction to kill off the main character. This is the ONLY thing that made that third book worth the paper it was printed on. (Okay, I read it on Kindle because paper, really?)

I HAD D&M DOLLS TOO!