Arguing on the internet.

Do you genuinely not understand that accusing her of just really wanting something to write about on Jezebel is, in fact, victim blaming? Honestly? Wow.

No. Saying "Send me a dick pic" would have been permission. Anything other than that is not "permission," and politely telling him that it was inappropriate is not "acceptance". It's saying "no." She probably continued the date, at least in part, because women are routinely taught to defuse social situations that…

You are the kind of person she's talking about. What you typed above is misogyny at worst and disrespectful at best.

youre kidding right? no one should expect a dick pic 2 hours into a formal date. thats just weird. just cause she went on a date with him doesnt mean shes open to seeing his dick. it was entire unsolicited and very inappropriate.

My thought is that this kind of behavior is why this otherwise charming guy is still single, so "it's worked for him in the past" is debatable.

One time I was talking with a girl on OKC and we were hitting it off - she had mentioned off handly that it was refreshing that someone had not sent her a 'Dick Pic' right away. When she gave me her cell number the first time I immediately sent this photo:

Haha ok friend, I think we're done here. You keep sending those dick pics and let us know how it works out for you

I have a husband, whom I love. We have lots of sex, and we have a kid, so I even have proof of said sex. I STILL don't want him to send me a dick pic.

She didn't overlook it at all, she told him it was inappropriate and then mentally debated whether or not this red flag was enough to overlook all of his positive attributes. Once she decided it was, she got the hell out of there and ceased communication with him.

I think it plays out something like this:

I cannot second this hard enough (hah! See what I did there?) I mean, yeah, my dick is cool and all...but dear god why? I cannot think of a single reason I would ever send a dick pic. I mean, do we really need proof of life on this one? Is that, perhaps, the concern? Other males, let me help you. SHE ALREADY…

See, men like that don't date me. Because if something that rude gets sent to my phone, then it's time to let the mutual acquaintance know a) it happened, and b) who sent it, unsolicited.

As the recipient of dick pics from otherwise normal men: I don't know, man. I just don't know.

I think it's a paraphilia. I mean, if he'd cut out the middleman and just flashed her in public, we'd call it a paraphilia.

I wonder if the person who pointed out that this is kind of sex offenderish behaviour isn't right? Like he knew that she would feel trapped with the date/set up by mutual acquaintances scenario. Which is pretty horrible.

I am honestly terrified for anyone that ends up dating you.

I am fucking AMAZED by the guys that do this. I can't even wrap my head around it, it's like we're a fundamentally different species. My dick and I get along great and we have pretty high opinions of one another (well, I assume the well regard is reciprocated) but it has never once in my entire life occurred to me to…

Are you actually this clueless or are you trolling?

I don't think you know how little sense your comment is. I'm not even talking about the "she didn't say no hard enough" bullshit. What you're saying is she gave him permission to send his dick AFTER it was sent. How the fuck do you give someone the OK to do something after it's already been done?