Unfortunately this likely a conversation that you and her mother should have had with her prior to getting pregnant, that you won’t support her and her baby should she get pregnant.

It sounds like Lou hasn’t had much tangible positive reinforcement in her life that she’s worth anything and can do anything or that people believe in her. Even at a time when she’s emerging into a new phase of her life, she’s already got the stigma of not being suitable for whatever it is she’s doing.

My approach is…

Tonight, we’re all Communists!

I don’t have any advice for your issue. But I did get you out of the gray so that should get you some replies. I wish you the best:

Attempting to coerce a person into an abortion is universally wrong.

I think you should tell her to get an abortion.

YOU GUUUUYZ!! After my hair falling out due to my accident, and being holed up recovering for MONTHS, I finally had a solo girly day! Got my hair done, eyebrows waxed, and went to Sephora. Plus I did it all driving myself and WALKING without crutches!!! Feels good to be doing the everyday things I was missing out on…

I’m with you on this!

You know, we can have more than one hero at a time.

As a mentally ill person I want to bake this woman an amazing cake. This man is not mentally ill, and that would just be a way for Fox and even progressive outlets to ignore the changes and evolution that has occurred in American racism.

Not sure I could love this comrade more.

Dear god I wish. Unfortunately I was not quick witted enough to do more than ‘uhhhhhhh, yup.’

“You’re pretty for an Indian girl”

“I guess you do look like you could have some squaw in you.”

i get the chubby girl version: “you have such a pretty FACE!”

“For a jewish girl you’re pretty generous/small nosed/quiet voiced/down to earth”

You’re Jewish? How’d you get to be such a pretty blonde?

“You have a pretty face for a big girl.”

I knew you were a nerd, you wear glasses.

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