I dated 7 cheerleaders in my life [three in high school, three in college and one after college] and I made damn sure I was in good shape at all times. Most of the time it was easy, but I didn't forget they had plenty of other offers.

I think women appreciate someone in good shape as much as a man. I've been to the gym pretty much every day for the last 18 months and the women at my gym pretty openly look at guys. There's a whole troop of them who position themselves on machines opposite the weights area. I'm the sort who never pays attention to…

Such as the guy a couple weeks ago who walked up to me and asked me why I was wearing heels since I was already 'too tall.'

That's so obviously the correct answer that I don't understand how otherwise intelligent people fail to see it.

I've heard that. I lost a lot of weight and got into great shape in the last 18 months and my girlfriend did not. She's overweight and very self-conscious about it now that I'm not. It doesn't help when people say to her things like "Gee, how'd you get him?" [we were both slim when we met]. She says one woman actually…

I've had a few people ask me why I'm with my overweight girlfriend. [I lost a lot of weight in the last 18 months and got in great shape.] It's remarkable the things people will say.

Men will do that, too. I don't look at porn unless you consider kitchn and serious eats to be porn, which case I'm a total pervert. That why I go to the gym every day. If I didn't I wouldn't look like Seth Rogen, I'd look like I swallowed Seth Rogan.

To be healthy. That's why I do it. Going to the gym to attract the opposite sex seems like a bad idea. Many years from now I want to be one of those weird old guys who is in really good shape and everyone stares at him because he's like 70 and in really good shape and they wonder why he doesn't look like everyone…

You've been to Kentucky? 'Cause I've been to Kentucky many times and I can't recommend it wholeheartedly. Or at all.

I see that going on in my life. When I got out of grad school and got a good job, I put everything into my job. I let my diet, exercise and health slide. I got up to 250 pounds, which is a lot, even on the frame of a 6'3" man with broad shoulders. I wore nicely tailored suits that hid a lot of it, but when I started…

I won't presume to speak for anyone else, but I never underestimate the power of cultural inertia.

For those who want their panties soaked...in gin.

If anything, it's just some peace of mind for guys who don't always trust condoms, and who worry about whether or not their partner missed a birth control pill or two.

Men deserve to have control over their reproduction

It doesn't create dry orgasms, but even if it did, I, a man, would not care a bit if it gives me reliable control over my contraception.

I want this thing, too, but chivalry is stupid. This is about control. I want to be in control of my contraception. When this thing hits the market, I will be. An injection will be a price I will easily pay.

Also, sure there's an injection to be had, but women get shots, uterine implants, arm implants, and hormonal medications. Can you help us out, guys? It's high time for a bit of burden-sharing in procreation.

I'm as ready for this as anyone can be. I'm not looking forward to the injection, but if it keeps me from fathering children, it's well worth it. I suspect plenty of men will come to that conclusion. And I don't really give a fuck what name they give it. Cialis is a pretty stupid name, but people are buying that.

I will. If there was a line for this I'd be standing in it already.

A-fucking-men, dude.