Thank you. I try to be tasteless without being offensive.

My cat just threw an open box of scones off the table in this manner. Can’t even be mad at him for it right now. I want to pick them all up and put them back just to do it myself.

Well you don’t just start off by raping someone at Sundance.

Well fuck all this

They didn’t mean to run the man over. It was just so hard to see out of the eyeholes of their Klan hoods.

Joan Cusack has really gone down a dark path.

It took too long of a scroll to get here.

By the way...am I the only one who didn’t know that Alexis was in Pulp Fiction, and in a great small part?

Hey, friends! Join me in the Not Wrestling Over the Gendered Language section. Alexis was fantastic and great and was loved by many. Instead of being self-appointed pronoun monitors, let’s love on Alexis’ memory and realize some people will have it right and some people will have it wrong. AIDS sucks, brain tumors…

Or, maybe given Alexis’ fluidity with terms, he decided to keep it simple for the public instead of making this about pronouns and defaulted to “her”.

Both that post and the one linked here are by the same person. In both posts, Richmond flows back and forth when describing Alexis’ gender throughout Alexis’s life, referring to Alexis as both he, she, brother, sister. I’m not sure what you thought spamming the facebook tribute was supposed to prove, random idiot on…

I think it’s fair to have doubts about your ability to feed and dress yourself, you unbelievable moron.

No, it wasn’t correct at all. Nothing you’ve said has been correct ever at any point in this thread. Alexis used different pronouns depending on whatever mood s/he was in and all of the siblings knew that. This has been made abundantly clear to you on this thread I’m guessing around 30 times at this point.

And? So you went and found a more recent Facebook post that doesn’t really excuse the general shittiness of your reaction to his first statement and his second statement still doesn’t really support any of the stupid shit you said the first time around. So why the fuck did you wallpaper the thread with that? Now you…

I do understand what you are saying, but besides the fact that the Arquette’s have been extremely public in their support of their sibling, the fact that Richmond’s statement even read specifically:

Not really. Not when the family you “have doubts” about is well known and has a very well-documented and easily verifiable history of supporting their transgender/gender fluid sibling. This isn’t some anonymous person from an j known family. Before making unkind assumptions about grieving siblings, you could have…

It’s neither fair, nor appropriate, nor decent, nor logical given the overwhelming evidence that the Arquette family supported all of Alexis’ transitions. Your doubts are based on nothing other than your own self involvement, nice try though.

I won’t jump down your throat by attacking you. But don’t you think it’s extremely unfair, and particularly narrow minded of you to make totally defaming assumptions about a grieving family who are strangers to you, based solely on your own personal experiences?

I’m sure you know better than the families of departed transgender folks what language to use, but you have zero ownership of it, it’s not your place to judge. The people who are left behind when a loved one departs are free to do whatever the fuck makes them feel better, or do you believe that funerals and wakes…

Guilty until proven innocent is definitely the best approach to take in life, especially when critiquing someone’s expression of grief on the same day as his sibling’s death. Assuming the worst in people leads to happiness. Keep on.