I had quite the opposite problem. I fainted at the sight of my house on fire, and an ambulance (which always comes with the fire department) made me go to the hospital. I tried to resist, but I guess there are some liability issues, where if they think you might really need to go, they'll get you to go. I knew I had…

Ok, it sounds like you're the one who is butthurt. We can disagree without you being an asshole.

Ok, this is totally off topic, but Doug Barry, your cat's belly is made for rubbing. I want to smoosh it right this minute!

It's a gossip blog. Was there ever a time when it was supposed to be "balanced?"

Except that his nose large and flat and hers is small, his eyes are blue and hers are brown, his eyebrows are bushy, low, and ginger, and hers are thin, arched, and brown, and his mouth is broad with a flat philtrum and her mouth is small with a defined philtrum. Not to mention that he has unusually low, fleshy cheeks…

No, philosophy. But your reaction to women's studies is telling. Maybe you need to find a website that doesn't ask so much of you.

I'll also suggest this book on the philosophy of masculinity and feminism: http://www.amazon.com/Rethinking-Mas…

And you keep up with these long replies, calling me mentally ill and derogating me on a personal level without referencing my points at all. The only reason I can see for it is that you know, on some level, that your comment was thoughtless and derogatory, but you keep calling me names to make yourself feel better.…

"You are crazy."

Dude, by using impotence as an insult, you are teasing everyone with that disability. I think we can all agree that such behavior is that of a bad person. Again, you are part of the problem. Do you also call people cripples and tease effeminate men?

Oh my god, I'm asking you to be a decent person and not use a disability as a point of shame. Do you tease people who are wheelchair bound? What about people with AIDS?

Gosh, normally I don't agree with you, and I'm glad to see that we can come together on common ground. That comment was fucking bullshit, and totally playing into patriarchal notions of masculinity and manhood, and also worthiness. It was total fucking ableism.

Ok, I have to agree with Seatosky here, and I thought it even before I saw his reply to your comment. You are making fun of the horrid college kid by saying that his views are caused by some physical disability. That's fucked up. Saying "little tiny saxton can't get it up" is like saying, "she's just angry because she…

The title says Detroit suburb, which isn't exactly Detroit, and the article says, "In Northville, a well-to-do suburb about 30 miles northwest of Detroit." No excuses.

Holy-moly, you really had a doozy! I'm so sorry you had to go through that, and I'm glad you got out of it. I want to give your ex such stink-eye!

Thank you for this comment. Just knowing that this not uncommon, and that it's not entirely about me, is very helpful. It'll help me to empathize more with his experience of the situation.

You're so right. I really enjoy having sex with my husband, and find it so hot, and I think he's so sexy. But I still wont climax, and don't want to go through the 40 minutes or so it might take to do so. In the same vein, quickies are hot for a very different reason than long sex sessions are hot. It's probably rare…

Thank you for this comment. The way I try to explain it to him (and he tries to understand) is that I'm like a guy with ED, and it's not that I don't find him sexy and wonderful, it's that my body wont cooperate.

Well if he's not willing to do what you need, and insists on using a failing method, that's on him. I wonder why he couldn't see that.

We actually are in counseling. This little comment you replied to came out so naturally, I think I'll print it out and read it to our therapist. Sometimes it's so hard to get to the real meat of the issue in a session, but I almost started crying while writing that comment because it's so true to what I've been…