Chub-inducing. but NO FURTHER!

We weren't allowed to sit at the same table as the boys nor were we allowed to play soccer at recess with them because there was too great of a chance for physical contact.

This is all kinds of gross. Repressed men worried they're gonna get boners looking at teen girls at a homeschool prom. What depressing lives these men must lead.

"Is it self-control if we just humiliate and shun the women till our boners go away?"
Nope. You're doing it wrong, assholes.

We couldn't wear spaghetti strap anything in my public schooling because it was distracting for the boys. And by that they meant too many of us were getting pregnant so we needed to cover our arms so the boys would be focused on math and not boobs.

It's not? Then what were the clothing restrictions on boys?

Her response to all of this is sheer perfection:

Middle aged perverts using dress codes as a pretext for sexually harassing school girls? Color me shocked. This shit has been going on forever.

I disagree pretty strongly here. Rape is a seriously underreported and underprosecuted crime, but if we take restroom scribblings as criminal evidence, it would be incredibly, incredibly easy for someone to abuse the system or implicate innocent people out of a desire for revenge.

I get why someone in the (horrific) situation of deciding between the college system and the law might choose the college system, but it's still not clear to me why this is a legitimate thing that is allowed by colleges and the law and whatever. They wouldn't do this for a murder on campus, right?

Like real-world rape is treated all that more seriously than college rape...

Well if it's a crime against someone, of course the victim has the right to press charges with the cops. But if it's a victimless crime most colleges wouldn't report the crime to the police.

Problem is the rapists don't.

May I heartily endorse women's colleges? Sexual assault can (and does) happen there just like anywhere, but there are no frats and male assailants will not enjoy the protection of the administration because they don't go to school there.

If this site is any indication... it's all of them.

How is this even legal though? When you break the law, don't you, you know...break the law... How is it different if you are a college student?

Most private colleges deal with issues internally instead of getting actual cops involved. I think it is a protect their own sort of thing, don't want to get a kid of some wealthy tuition paying person in actual trouble.

The victim chose to work within the college judicial system instead of the criminal system. I don't blame her — the college can expel him. The judicial system can punish offenders, but it is currently ill equipped to keep offenders away from victims.

I personally like "No" for that purpose.

Choose Your Own Adventure: Rape Edition