This. The guy is entitled to his own opinion on attractiveness, of course, but he seems to be making an obvious attempt to shoehorn all his preferences onto every single woman, disguised as THIS SPECIAL MALE SECRET 99% OF GUYS ACTUALLY PREFER BUT DON'T WANT YOU TO KNOW.

Yawn. It's boring seeing people try to police…

No, I understand perfectly what you're trying to get at. You stated that:

"Don't tell anyone where you learned this, but most men find women at their "peak of sexiness" when they aren't trying too! You in your t-shirt and jeans, slightly sweaty as you move into a new place? Much hotter than you in crap tons of make up…

???? Can anyone "objectively" look good? Let's start with that right there. How does one "objectively" look aesthetically pleasing? You do realize the concept of beauty is sociological, not biological, right?

I think you'll find the vast majority of women, outside of work, *do* wear jeans and t-shirts on a regular basis. You just don't notice them because you actually don't think they're hot. You probably think hot women are hot, even if they're wearing jeans. Perhaps you think women who try too hard to impress men are…

Please tell this to the green furry dude in the trash can down the street who has been the same way for like, I dunno, 40+ some years.

The study didn't instruct the participants to "speak in an effeminate voice." They instructed them to speak in a flirtatious voice, whatever that meant to them. Some of the participants could have interpreted that as speaking like Barry White. The article doesn't explain how the men modulated their voices to sound…

My husband has a baritone voice and a Scottish accent. He can tell me "I'm off to the shops to get cat litter" and I'm ready to drag him into bed.

This is why I've given up speaking to people I find attractive. Now, I just carry a horn. Oddly, I'm doing about as well as I was before. AHWOOOOOOOOGA!

I tend to agree, but then I remember my Dad's funeral where everyone was dressed very appropriately (black dresses, dark suits, or military uniforms) EXCEPT one of his nieces (my cousin) and two of her kids. She looked OK, but the kids were in cargo pants and t-shirts. I was moved by how it was so important for her…

There was a Catholic church two blocks from my Methodist church in the South. In the '80s, they were always far less Sunday-dressed than we were. I'd see their khakis, or sundresses, or jeans!, and my father would say "Catholics don't really dress up for church. And they have to go on Saturdays, too."

Not a church go-er here, but thoughts:

I know some people would not care, but I swear I will haunt anyone's ass who wears flip flops to my funeral.

Sweatpants to church is just nasty. I rarely judge, but that makes me judgmental as hell.

People not dressing up for FUNERALS drives me ape. I used to drive past a funeral home every day between work and home, and the sight of someone dressed up at all for a service was rare, and even then I'd guess they were immediate family or pallbearers, etc. People were obviously attending memorial services in shorts,…

I'm a heathen—I find organized religion to be pretty damn terrifying and causes me to run away. That being said, I went to lutheran church services for all of my school aged years, because it was important to my grandmother and thus we went.

There's a really big Southern/Northern divide on this in the U.S. I grew up Catholic in the Northeast, and aside from not being allowed to wear spaghetti straps or shorts to church, my parents couldn't care less what I wore. Easter and Christmas were the two exceptions where we dressed up a little. Now I live in…

If we can take this seriously for a minute. I think this is, to the old guard, a respect issue. If we are going off the assumption that someone was tortured and died so that you could have an afterlife, you would think you could throw on a polo and a pair of khakis once a week (or more likely once a year) for his…

I like the idea that worship is a special celebration that you dress up for. Especially if kids are involved, that's a great way to teach them.

I don't know whether this is because I'm black, but um yeah, people not dressing up for church drives me nuts. I'm not even super Christian, I'm a Unitarian but I'm just like come on, you could've at least worn jeans, sometimes like people will walk in sweatpants and a faded ass t-shirt. Why??? I'd understand if you…