Right. And I'm saying it has more to do with the situation. Everybody's got a different chemistry together. I don't want to hear about anybody being denigrated when "feelings" (ewww) crop up. Sometimes sex can be fun and giving without a pre-requisite relationship, but we shouldn't feel bad about ourselves if we find…

Sometimes sex is something fun and pleasurable to do with someone you're attracted to without any consequences. Sometimes emotions get involved. Sometimes it's about love. And sometimes it's just straight up cynicism. Stop trying to delineate that there's either sex... or there's love.

Don't worry. You're not the only one. After my last break up, I went through a hell-round of unhealthy bed-hopping thinking it was what I was "supposed" to do and that "everyone else but me" was having care-free, emotion-less sex therefore I must too. It ended up being really damaging to me and prolonging a situation…

Can we stop with this "Casual Sex is the answer to EVERYTHING" meme. It's good for some, not for others. For some engaging is a short-term response, for others a lifestyle, and for infinitely more it's situational.

Well, it ain't easy, but I kinda look at it as a test of my character and a way for both of us to perpetually move forward in our self knowledge. I don't blame you. One. Bit. for not wanting to take on such a task - and I wouldn't have either - if not for his gentle assurance that our friendship was worth preserving.

Exhibit B

Oooh. I bet he was so sexy back in the day! You'll have to tell me sometime!

Attacked by a red feather boa that is now trying to strangle her!

Really good drugs?

Why THANK you for assuming I'm young! Always makes my day :-)

It looks pretty Disney Princess even on the runway.

A dress is not a dress without some ass crack.

So, SOOOO sick of women going to fancy events near naked with a bit of lace taped to their T&A. WTF, designers!!!

I know! The whole thing looks like she's trying to be a Live Action Disney Princess.

Because he's an awesome, drug-addled, STD-hold-out from the bygone era of hair metal and you will never ever see the likes of him again. Cherish the past!

I know we're all supposed to swoon whenever Beyonce comes onto the scene, but seriously here. I get sick of these see-through dresses that make me wonder how much pussy I'm seeing through the lace pattern. Why do women always have to trounce around near naked while men have minimum two layers covering their bodies?

I would urge you to read the whole thing. He made very sensitive, soul-searching points in which he did quantify that this does not go for ALL gay men. Also he's not necessarily saying gay men hate women and are intrisically misogynist, just that it has become acceptable within gay culture to make "sassy" or demeaning…

I think if it were written with the amount of care, sensitivity and forethought, then I think "Yes," it would get the accolades this is getting.

Lots of love to you <3. I also have had to end long-term friendships for similar reasons. Never gets easier. In some ways losing the love and companionship of an old friend is worse that that of losing a romantic interest.

Our hard earned $250 split ten ways!