Bowb, seeing as you're looking for people who can tell you they had a similar experience to this woman, I'm glad to tell you that here I am! I returned to the scene of the crime more than once, with the criminal. I had convinced myself that it wasn't wrong, that I deserved it, that I was in the wrong, that it was…
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And when 50% of the population is women? Why don't you see those women everywhere?
You need to stop. You are being told by multiple people, including people who have actually been through it, that rape victims react in a variety of ways, and you don't get to decide which ways are ok. And you certainly don't get to decide that reacting a way that you don't find logical means that the story is false.…
In a case of a robbery, perhaps it would be tough to believe. But in a case of rape, it seems that her submissive and willing (to hang out with him) behaviour is not all that out of the norm of rape victims. You can't compare rape to a robbery due to the psychological mindset of the victim being completely different…
I find it hard to believe since you seem to not think that it is even a little possible that this guy used his "fame" to manipulate, coerce or threaten this girl and how that could have played a role in this happening.
Bwob, if a person gets robbed, then goes to a concert with the robber... then goes back to the robbers place and gets robbed again.
Guess what... it's still robbery. Actually its robbery X 2. The victim's intelligence or lack there of doesn't negate the robberies.
I must've gone on many dates with him because he continued to be my boyfriend for about 2 years after the rape. Like I said, I wasn't aware it was a rape until years later.
Yes, calling an allegation of sexual assault "obvious bullshit" is contributing to rape culture. The fact that you quoted "rape culture" to beg meaning is telling. The fact that you try to equate rape with robbery is also telling.
"Most" people? You know this how? You keep demanding proof here, let's see YOU cough up some. Where's YOUR proof?
After I was raped last year I was in such shock about what had happened that I drove my rapist home. I couldn't figure out what else to do or how to process. So yes, I do believe that story. Asshole.
Unbelievable to an asshole like you, who refuses to listen to women who are actually wasting their time trying to educate you?
When we paint rape to look like a stranger in the bushes that rapes women at knifepoint, we tell everyone else that unwilling sexual contact that doesn't "meet that standard" is not rape. Yes, women and men are raped using threats and violence, but women and men are also raped using confusion and playing off of human…
They should make a prank video where he gets arrested and thrown in jail for many years. You know, as a joke.
Give him a break. He's confused because he himself shits out his mouth.
Tell me more about you super awesome and unbeatable online argument style. You just burned me right good! I just don't even know how id defend myself. Smh at me!
Oh, Carrie. Shut up.
Oh, my! Assaulted by dessert would be better than poached by this clown...but still that was a fantastic metaphor :)
I have no doubt she will exploit it but I seriously doubt she was happy about being assaulted. I love cake but I don't want it shoved in my mouth.