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I swear to god Idris my heart actually beats faster JUST LOOKING AT YOU.

So, whaddya all think about Tinder? Anyone here use it and have stories? I just might try it on this rainy Saturday evening.

"while I hate to see an unkempt baby"

CAN ANYONE EXPLAIN THIS TO ME AM I LOSING MY MIND

Holy hell. Wowza. PS after seeing this I Googled him and this is my new favorite photo:

Monsoon Wedding is soooo much fun.

Just skimming through some I've liked on Netflix, higher-quality rom-comish movies: Safety Not Guaranteed, Say Anything, Monsoon Wedding, Pretty in Pink, Clueless, The Sapphires, Bachelorette, Ira & Abby, Beautiful Girls, Breakfast Club, also this is a standup set but a truly sweet, hilarious story-oriented one: Mike…

Ugh, tell me about it. I was dumped after about a month with a total lovely dream guy who was seemingly into me (very affectionate, texted often, super kind, great chemistry). Didn't see it coming—we were having so much fun! Was way more devastated than I expected and ended up having a good long wallowing period. It…

I was just on Amanda Lepore's website this morning (her cameo on Selfie Loathing last night took me there), and was bummed to see her use the word "tranny" in her bio (it was rather crass/snarky in its tone throughout, I kind of think that's her thing). She is transgendered, though, so is the word acceptable when she…

But what would our favorite mortician have to say about Obama's funeral selfie?

I'm confused. Are the naked photos of the actual women he dated and is describing, or just random naked women that he didn't get permission from? Either way, gross. But he has some next-level nerve if those are his actual ex partners.

Ugh, I bet the barrage of questions was exhausting. On the bright side, your wedding sounds like it was lovely.

My mother's colors for her first wedding (with my dad) were mauve and silver (I don't think there's ever been a more 80s-sounding sentence). The colors for her second wedding (with my stepdad, to whom she's still married) were sage and lavender. Much better the second time around.

Ugh, this strain of Christianity tastes so familiar (and gross). In my hometown the evangelical church lassoed in all the cool, popular kids this way. They appealed to their small-town conservative values guilt big time by saying, "here, you can still be cool and hangout at our awesome dry bar/club for teens and…

I think I speak for all redheads (who enjoyed emerald this year) when I say: BOOOOOOOOOOOO

You've pointed out something very important: that when people challenge you it gives you a chance to enhance your analysis and sharpen your debate skills. Even though I feel disappointed, disgusted and spiritually exhausted from this conversation with him, I feel good knowing I've practiced those things and improved…

God, let me know what you do. I'm considering deleting this guy from my Facebook. And I used to date him! We were very, very close for awhile. I never delete people over political differences or just because we get in debates and they disagree with me. But this is a philosophical issue in which he is espousing views…

He actually just said to me that Peggy McIntosh and her Invisible Knapsack is "racist vile shit." His issues and complicated justifications for them are a whole new level of crazy. It's clear he's in deep denial, and it makes me very sad.

I had a long-time friend reveal some misogynist thinking to me last night. I'm pretty shocked and upset today. It was extra frustrating because he's a highly educated and very well read progressive who was arguing that "modern" feminism is actually limiting to women, criticizing it from the left. But he was working…