Kinda like Mickey was the Brando of his day? Brilliant, mixed with gives-no-fucks and a touch of cray? Agreed. Say what you will of Shia, he's a great actor.

June 28 - July 28 = 1 month

Oh god, food is the worst when it comes to adding up over time. Especially when you order in quite a bit (like moi) or eat out occasionally (also like moi). All of a sudden, i see the little pie chart my online banking uses to show me my expenses is like 40% food. Yiiiiiikes.

Financial mavens! I need your help. I make decent money but it all gets sapped up so fast, and I'm left with debt that continues to build. School loan, bank loan, parental loan, health care bill, tax bills each month and let's not forget rent. It's just so much. My problem isn't insurmountable, yet. I just need help…

Veronica Mars The Movie. Yea or nay?

You've somehow made lutefisk sound appetizing and sensical. Bravo!

He's quite a bit older than her anyway, though. For comparison, Zoe's mom is married to Jason Momoa, who himself is 2 years younger than Fassbender. This fam is too cool for me.

OMG, I think this might be it!! I was told a few months back that I was quite Vit D deficient and should start taking low doses. I, too, had an all-consuming job that kept me indoors almost all the time for 2 years. I had no idea it could lead to tingling! And the "tiredness" in the arms is what I'm feeling too! Holy…

So good to know! This stretch feels amazing.

Wow! Great stuff. Thanks!

I have catastrophic coverage at the moment that wouldn't help me in this situation. That should change soon, but it's what I'm dealing with now.

Any idea what to do about the tingling in my fingers? I've experienced it mildly before, but yesterday and today it's been pretty intense. Very sensitive prickling feeling in my fingertips, and yesterday even some weird feelings up my arms. I'm thinking it might be carpal, but I've also heard it can be an indicator of…

A mixed bag tonight, please weigh in if you've got anything on any of this:

Trampage — love it! I was on one of those too when I met manfriend. So I totally get it!

Awesome. Yes. You understand me. Though manfriend is fairly traditional on matters of monogamy, he is thoughtful and open-minded and I've got him listening to Dan Savage and introduced to the idea of monogamish-ness. I'm sure, if things continue as they have been, we'll have more talks about some openness at some…

Thank you. This really is a good thing that I don't want to give up, and one of the reasons is that we have fantastic communication. We're in a constant state of discussing how we feel about the relationship, eachother, etc. And since we're the same age and around the same stage of life I know he's flexible to moving…

I'm now in my first serious relationship. He's wonderful and I'm in love with him, and my parents/family met him over the holidays and also adore him. But I wasn't originally planning for or expecting this to turn into something long-term, and now that it has I'm confronting what it might mean not to date other people…

Oh lovely lady, I could have written this exact message myself when I was 21 and graduating college. I mean, not one requited crush, not so much as a single actual hookup throughout high school and undergrad (and not for lack of confidence, lack of involvement or lack of putting myself out there, that's for fucking…

All makes sense to me — thanks! I tend to more on the introvert side too, so I'll be glad to have alone/quiet time with him. I live 1,000 miles away from the fam, so this two weeks of time is my primary visiting time for the year, which makes it harder to blow things off while I'm back. But the good part for us is…

Had a lovely turkey day with the boyfriend's family, and then spent the weekend with my roomies gone cleaning and decorating our apartment for Christmas, baking and watching feel-good movies until late with the volume up. Utter heaven. Anyway, I'm prepping for my holiday trip home and it will be the first time I'm…