Anyone else sick of having their partner/spouse always around? That sounds mean and it’s not him. I just no longer get the restorative alone time I used to have pre-COVID when he had a life outside the house. I’m far too introverted to have someone in my house 24/7 without experiencing some resentfulness.

This week I confirmed and moved forward with my decision not to contest my divorce, in essence walk away from 20 years of partnership with my dog, some clothes, and the bodum. I don’t own a fork, a pillow, a plate (I rent a fully furnished home). Annnd, I feel so fucking light, and at peace. The past five, fuck maybe…

I’ve had a horrible past two weeks. My grandma passed on the 4th. It was sort of expected but still seemed to come out of no where. She’s had horrible RA for years and has been bed ridden for at least the past 2 years.

So the other day I found out that my aunt and uncle are going to Las Vegas next weekend for their anniversary...during a pandemic!!

Shelter Catstravaganza!

Did you cook anything this week, or was it just a week where it felt like the world was melting? We did have two nice days with weather in the mid 70s and acceptable dew points, so I got up to more Levant inspired cooking.

About a month ago, I got my infusion to treat my multiple sclerosis. Since I had to go to the hospital’s infusion wing, I was super careful, fully masked, washed my hands, and it was a successful infusion.

Hey cool kitty cats! Wondering what y’all’s best pandemic purchase has been? For me, it’s been weights, hands down. I had a tough time ordering them in April, because I still wasn’t sure when Panama was going to allow international travel. If you’ve looked at weights, you know they immediately became insanely…

Last week (July 5-11) was probably the roughest damn week of my life. I knew it’d be tough, as I was working and preparing to perform in Shakespeare in the Park this weekend...

Evening folks ! As always I hope everyone is doing well. This week we’ve spent every single day at the beach and honestly I can’t complain. We get up early. Find our perfect little spot on the sand. Than build little sandcastle walls encircling it. AND this very morning I managed a solo beach visit. (The tiny human is…

As someone who’s entering my thirties and watching my unpaired friends get antsy, it makes sense as to why. There’s a dip in dateable people around that age, especially if you’re a 30-something woman looking for a man, because there is a solid chance you want children sooner rather than later (just statistics +…

I can’t stress Brandy’s “this person is not your weighted blanket” enough.

I get the sense that Sick for Love isn’t allowing herself to mourn because of guilt. The more she denies herself the right to feel those feelings, the longer the mourning will last. Let it out girl! 

A useful way of looking at dilemmas like this is realizing that the other person also deserves the same unconditional love and happiness you feel you’re lacking, and if you’re not the person to give it to them, it’s better in the long run for both of you to move on. “Living a lie” is absolutely a thing, and not a good…

“There’s a cost to everything”

I’m in the same boat as YesButNo. I can’t answer for them, but I can give you my answer: it’s easy to think of Facebook as kind of a rough straw poll on how the world (or, at least, my little universe) is reacting to and absorbing the crazy things happening around us. I log in to see what the general take is (in my…

These seem like excellent steps towards redressing inequality but.... reparations?

Here’s a comment I’m NOT going to delete!

You can also post something, then disable notifications for the post. The same goes for Reddit. This way, you can still get your two cents in without being dragged into a 5 hour long argument with a brick wall.

Guys, this is so mind boggling.