Hey, I just wanted to say I’m so sorry you’re dealing with this. I got dumped right before everything happened (he was a dick and logically, I’m glad I’m not stuck with him lying around on my couch, but I thought we were going to get married), and I am so fucking lonely. Like, I would pay an obscene amount of money…

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I like the insta-dri, but Holo Taco’s super glossy taco has quickly become my holy grail in terms of top coat. It…

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Mixing ambien and booze also gives the “lucid but forgetting everything later.” I am sure it’s someone she knows. I have been drugged once. Thank god I was able to tell a friend. I have no memory of the night until I woke up in the hospital in formalwear. I held conversations and I do not remember anything. My friends…

To the folks who have been following my stupid story and giving good advice, thank you. I am slowly eating the frozen cookies from my dad.

Nail polish! The worst!!! I am a teacher, so I put on my best teacher voice and say, “Put it away,” in the “if you don’t put it away right now, hell will rain down with a thousand detentions and lonely lunches.” It works because they always put it away but seriously who thinks any of those things are okay?!

It sucks mostly because I thought he was different and... it’s like the same cheating story a million times over. Such common refrains of the same sad songs. I did put all of his old sex toys scattered amongst the tubs - certainly he’d want them back. (I may just sell stuff on marketplace or craigslist. There is a…

Yeah, I tried being reasonable after he dumped me via email (he has been completely no contact since then), and after talking to my shrink, who advised me “Knowing all this, what would you advise your friend Cupcake to do?” and the answer was immediately “lawyer up.” I think I need to keep his shit for 60 days, but…

Thanks to everyone who has given me such good advice over the past month. It’s been the worst year so far. We got everything out of my dad’s apartment. It was rough. I miss him so much.

Rage cleaning is the best. I’m so grateful for friends who said “I’m coming up this weekend unless you tell me no. I’ve already booked a car and hotel.” I am so lucky. New locks make everything feel like mine. All of his shit is in the garage, and he can get it out by bringing my garage remote back. 

I’ve got an appointment soon with a lawyer! Thank you for verifying my suspicions! 

Hey, thanks to everyone who has given such good advice over the past three weeks since my dad died. My fiancé moved out last week “to work on his problems” and then he dumped me via email a week later while I was at the emergency vet for my kitty. At least he had the good grace to bring my dad’s box of things back (I…

Funnily enough, the night my dad went to the hospital, it was snowing here. And there has been this sort of pathetic orange cat hanging around for a month (probably dumped or left behind - no signs or spca notice). I though she’d be a good cat for my dad since he wanted a cat and she’s been trying to get in for a…

He said that’s how he knew how bad his depression is - he couldn’t support me and he knew he should be taking care of me. I’m sort of hopeful he can figure his shit out? His being happy (even if we break up) would still be a better outcome than the train wreck we were in.

Thank you to everyone who has been so kind about my dad. I am almost finished packing his apartment. It is so hard.

Thank you 😊 and you’re absolutely right, “I’m so so sorry” is perfect. 

Hey, I wanted to say thank you to the folks who had so many kind words about my dad last week. I got through the funeral this week. It was so hard and I’m still not doing great. I took a picture of all the food he has made me and the Christmas presents and that helped so much. I ate some cookies and froze the rest. I…

Thank you ❤️ The bread was delicious. I ate a whole loaf. 

Thank you so much ❤️

Thank you. We had so many plans, and I found his calendar with everything written down and the days x-ed out. I’m going to try to still do them in the future. Thank you for your kind words.